son getting aggresive what to do???

Hi ams,

If it is all done and dusted at the football then thats a good thing. I think you may have to accept that this may be part of his warning signs for a hypo. Maybe they are developing now and you both have to find a way to deal with them.

I feel for you hun cuz it must be really hard.

But cheer up you have all the joys of teenage years to come soon :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol: :lol:

Josie

ams162 said:

i completely understand what ur all saying about the apologising but to the 9yr old boy dylan hit he didnt get why dylan hit him and to him he would of deserved an apology its very hard to balance whats right for dylan in this situation and whats right for a childs behaviour in a normal situation if that makes sense.

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I agree with that part, in a sense Dylan wasn't 100% responsible for his actions as he had low blood sugar, and as we see from other peoples examples it can happen that it causes you to be aware of your actions.

However the bottom line is he hit another child. An apology should definately have been made, but along with an explanation as to why he was unusually irritated to the point he lashed out. It clearly was solved to everyones satisfaction as your nobody has mentioned it and the coach said to forget about it.

It's happened now so not much you can do but use the experience to help in future situations, Dylan will hopefully use it in future to know where his boundaries are, i'm sure although i'm a quite laid back person that it would be possible to wind me up to the point i would lash out too! So he now can feel how much he can tolerate and simply walk away next time!

It must be difficult to make decisions with a child that diabetes can complicate further. I'm guessing most of us who aren't in your position won't fully understand, but we can see things from Dylan's point of view so we can be helpful from that perspective. I will always commend the parents who tackle diabetes on the behalf of their children. A task hopefully i will never have to face, but if i do i hope i do it as well as you guys do