Thank you @ alphabeta and Hi
@lollyann1. From experience as as T1D , not as professional advice or opinion:
We are educated and instilled in the mantra of "eating food and injecting insulin go together". And woe betide anyone who does one without the other!!
But are we robots to be so commanded? Or to be subjected to dire warnings as a means to make us, robots, do as we are told, with no explanation, flexibility, understanding that even Tin Man and Tin Woman have hearts???
(and how do you inject if you have a robot's exterior?? - I leave that for the educators to find a way to 'soften' their approach!!
I used to worry when eating out because I had no definite way of knowing the time interval between ordering a meal and when it would arrive. And so when do I give my short-acting insulin?
What helped me was to allow myself to be a human guinea pig:
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to test my BSLs at home, before and two hours after a meal say on a quiet weekend, for each meal and, if need be, doing a finger prick reading after say, 30 minutes after a meal, to reassurance myself at least once that nothing catastrophic would happen BSL wise (and
writing them down as a reminder and reassurance for when I was started to worry about timing of food and insulin)
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counting carbs so that I had a basis for how much Novorapid I was to inject.
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varying the time interval between injection and start of the meal, scary I know, but with one's trusty glucose meter and food nearby there is measure of control (and as others have suggested music, looking at the internet, doing sodoku, doing but not using crosswords! etc) and as reassurance, setting an alarm on the mobile phone to remind me when the time interval between injection and eating is up. Intervals: 20 minutes, 30 minutes and 40 minutes.
And it is true I could merrily inject (well, no, that is not merry but one gets used to it (and if you have qualms about injections themselves @lollyann I hope you seek help for this) and I delve into music etc and sometimes forget that I had not had the meal to follow the injection! So
the alarm was the reminder and reassurance that I would not forget.
And eating out, if the interval between injection and food arriving was too long, I would order an orange juice or request quick preparation of dessert and eat that whilst waiting for the entree etc,
Now, looking at the drug company figures on when Novorapid usually starts to work (20 minutes plus) and when it reaches a peak of BSL lowering action might be quoted as 1 1/2 to 3 hours.
This variation in peak effect used to worry me, until I have done my own BSLs and knew what MY pattern was.
The relative thought was: This is my body and I am the driver - not others.( the mobile phone alarm reminder etc is like the sat nav as well as having the cheeky comments from 'back seat drivers' (partner, family etc).
To relax: breathe slowly in and out ( when stressed we hold our breathe and our thinking and ability to cope well stops with it)
The alarm is on (check!), you have put a rubber band on your finger and written on the back of your hand EAT etc.
On with the show !!! Best Wishes, Humour is the best medicine !!!