You have diabetes because you chose the wrong grandparents. There is strong inherited factor for T2. I also think that the weight gain - due to large amounts of circualting blood glucose in teh presence of large amounts of insulin, due to insulin resistance - is a symptom of rather than cause of T2 diabetes.
Some of your life experiences may have speeded up your developing diabetes. I have had a very stressful and distressing lifestyle before my diagnosis as I was the carer for someone who had a serious health problem, my diet was absolute ****. Large quantities of high carb comfort food and carb based meals combined with little exercise and a long term problem with weight.
Combined with the stress hormone cortisol, which does have an impact on your body's insulin use, I was an accident waiting to happen. I did do a bit of reading aruond on cortisol and see it may be implicated in other health problems too, including my Roseaca
Even without the stress I believe I would have developed T2 diabetes - I had gestational diabetes in 1997 and a strong family history and showed some insulin resistance about 3 years ago. I think the stress brought my developing diabetes forward a few years. My lifestlye factors, I think, made it inevitable at some point :? I'm very grateful to the anxiety attack (complete with chest pain :shock: :? ) that took me to the doctor and started me on the road to diagnosis and improved health - not all stress is bad!
I found the information I read on
http://www.bloodsugar101.com gave me something I could work with because it took the blame (T2 diabetics are fat lazy slobs who brought their condition on themselves) away. However, if you go there remember it is an American website and their numbers are measured differntly - divide by 1.12, then that answer by 18 to get a number you would see on your own UK meter. Simples :roll: