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I was just thinking today back to a few years ago, I was told I had background retinopathy and at first get worried and I did try to control my diabetes but I kept going hypo all the time and put on weight and found it too hard. I was referred to a dafne course but it took a year for this to happen, and in the mean time I kind of gave up.
What was I thinking? That the retinopathy would go away just because I was finding things hard?
Now i have seen what can happen, I don't understand why I didn't realise what would happen if I failed to take action.
I really feel like the past however many years of living with diabetes until I got pregnant and began to control it i was living in a kind of fog where complications didn't happen to me only other people. I think I actually convinced myself I was immune because after being badly controlled for so many years I thought it would have happened already if it was going to....who knows what rubbish I told myself just to avoid having to confront reality.
Even after I'd had my baby I had lapses now and then but nothing like before.
Now I have seen what it's like when your eyes are bleeding from the inside out and you're at the mercy of a bureaucratic blundering NhS that doesn't care what affect it is having on your life, I won't be making this mistake again but is it too late to stop the train? I am fearful that my eyes will continue to deteriorate whatever I do now. I mean I was reasonably well controlled the past two years and still it progressed.
But I just don't understand how I could have lived in this fog of denial for so long and not comprehended that eventually the complications would catch up with me.
Anyone with me on this, because right now I'm feeling pretty stupid.
Particularly when I read the posts from people who've only been recently diagnosed who are taking it so seriously, cutting out all their favourite foods and I just feel like yeah I tried to cheat it and now I'm paying for it.
I was just thinking today back to a few years ago, I was told I had background retinopathy and at first get worried and I did try to control my diabetes but I kept going hypo all the time and put on weight and found it too hard. I was referred to a dafne course but it took a year for this to happen, and in the mean time I kind of gave up.
What was I thinking? That the retinopathy would go away just because I was finding things hard?
Now i have seen what can happen, I don't understand why I didn't realise what would happen if I failed to take action.
I really feel like the past however many years of living with diabetes until I got pregnant and began to control it i was living in a kind of fog where complications didn't happen to me only other people. I think I actually convinced myself I was immune because after being badly controlled for so many years I thought it would have happened already if it was going to....who knows what rubbish I told myself just to avoid having to confront reality.
Even after I'd had my baby I had lapses now and then but nothing like before.
Now I have seen what it's like when your eyes are bleeding from the inside out and you're at the mercy of a bureaucratic blundering NhS that doesn't care what affect it is having on your life, I won't be making this mistake again but is it too late to stop the train? I am fearful that my eyes will continue to deteriorate whatever I do now. I mean I was reasonably well controlled the past two years and still it progressed.
But I just don't understand how I could have lived in this fog of denial for so long and not comprehended that eventually the complications would catch up with me.
Anyone with me on this, because right now I'm feeling pretty stupid.
Particularly when I read the posts from people who've only been recently diagnosed who are taking it so seriously, cutting out all their favourite foods and I just feel like yeah I tried to cheat it and now I'm paying for it.