@dianagrace I have just read all of this thread and have marvelled yet again at the advice and helpful remarks from these fantastic members
This particular thread has clear and concise advice and different points of view enabling you to find you own path to health. Wonderful!
I agree with the too much fat thing, too much of that especially late at night gives me appalling reflux BUT having said that I remember a remark on here by paul1976. He said it's not a case of eating truckloads of fat, it's just a case of replacing the artificial with the real. A scrape of butter here or a splash of cream in your coffee is a life saver really. We have to give up such a lot that we used to enjoy eating that I do believe the food we can have must be delicious or we just won't stick to it.
I heard many years ago that a lot of fluid is essential every day because it's the way that fat leaves the body. This was at Weight Watchers so I did give it credence and it really does seem that if I can manage to drink at least 2 litres every day my weight does go down dramatically. I have plain water or herbal tea or water with lemon or lime juice in it. Not cordial, just the pure juice.
You will get there, it's a case of experimentation to see what works for you and you alone. There are many paths to good health on here and you CAN be healthy and have diabetes too as many members can attest. Just look at Andy12345 running the London Marathon this year but where was he last year? In the same place you are and then some
Keep on trucking and you will win in the end