Shortly after I was diagnosed last year I started vomiting at work one day - no reason, I hadn't previously felt unwell. At the time I put it down to the sudden changes in my diet and as I was still feeling nauseous and unwell, I phoned in sick the following day. We have a new system of recording sickness at work - my boss had reported it as 'diabetes'. I did find this a bit odd and to be honest, a little amusing - how can you have diabetes one day and be back to work and fine the next! As it was all very new to me - I didn't question him and soon forgot about it.
Anyway - fast forward to this week. I woke on Wednesday with a temperature and what I thought was the beginning of a migraine. I duly notified my boss of my absence. I went back to work on Thursday to find that once again, my sickness was reported as diabetes. When I asked him about it - his reply was 'Well, you do have diabetes, I didn't know what else to put.'
Am I being unreasonable by feeling like I have suddenly been labelled. I worry that if he constantly records stuff like this - it might look to the uninformed that diabetes is stopping me from doing my work.
Just needed to vent a bit!
Thanks all for your replies.
Our sickness recording system means your line manager enters the reason as soon as your absence is reported. Then on your return you do a 'Self Certificate' on the computer where you see what they have put - this time I decided to look further into the choices that could be given, I couldn't believe that migraine/headache or vomiting/nausea weren't mentioned. Then you have to 'accept' their entry so I am relieved I decided to question his choice but I was surprised at his reaction to me.
Before I was diagnosed - I did have enough instances of sickness to 'trigger' a report. Looking back I reaiise that some of them were due to the diabetes. I felt very frustrated to be told by my previous line manager that because they were well spaced out and for a few different reasons - muscle strain, migraine, dental stuff - that this, in itself constituted a 'pattern' - I couldn't believe it - especially as all but one were backed up by medical or dental records. This line manager was tempted, by her own admission, to put me up to the next level but her line manager said, although it looked like a high amount it was because I had a period of 17days off for stress which, hopefully was under control. Just before I was due to come off the report I collapsed in the street and hurt my head. As I pointed out - if I was taking advantage - I would have fallen the next week - not with a week to go.
My current line manager knows nothing about diabetes - and I don't expect him to but it does give me concern when he constantly brings up the subject. Even on a normal 'bad day' - he says 'is it your diabetes' and I feel like saying - no - it's just a rubbish day! I did feel a little offended when he brought in cakes one day (in itself no problem at all) and all he was concerned about was - would a Muslim colleague be able to eat one. Don't get me wrong - I am quite proud of the fact that the usual office cakes and sweets hold absolutely no interest for me now - I have learned to explain that 'No, I don't even want a small piece'.
Again, thanks all - I was worried I had been making too much of a fuss.
Just out of interest. Can you be sacked because of too many diabetes illness days?
It's strange isnt it that if they knew how hard diabetes is to manage and cope with they would have a bit more consideration. Ignorance comes in many forms. Just do what you can as they're responsible for themselves. I am no crusader and believe you can beat a drum but eventually they will switch off due to hearing just the noise. Beautiful music is only heard and appreciated by a few!Yes , I would of been (company closed first) , its called dismissal due to capability, and TBH I would have had no problem with it as I was not able to do my job properly...........
But what I did not like was the implication that my poor diabetic control was somehow my fault, ........
Its was simply that I had a stressful job , that I coped with for the best part of 2 decades, however the stress of the job started to cause BS problems , completely out of my control...................
having worked as a team leader for a number of years previously I can tell you that there is no requirement to state what your illness is.... well definitely none I was aware of where I live. What is required is medical evidence to support your absence if you only have x days without evidence. Some workplaces require evidence to be provided for every absence, some don't. I would never question someone about what they were actually sick with unless they wanted to tell me. I would ask though if they had anything that was contagious and if so, they should see their doctor because we need to protect others in the workplace from it spreading. Eg. someone got the whooping cough one year so we had to take precautions to notify all staff that they had been exposed to whooping cough, etc. But really other than the must knows, it's not a requirement. I have a lot of information recorded on my HR file about my health and that is because I have been put through a lot of assessments because I'm no longer able to work full time. But yes, I do recall some silly comments being put on my HR record about why I was absent and quite often it was wrong. I remember diabetes being mentioned a few times too which in reality it was just an assumption they made and nothing to do with my diabetes. I did question it and just got told oh look it isn't anything serious and noone is really going to look at it (which they don't tend to from my experience unless there is something really wrong).
I agree with your statement that there is no legal requirement to state the reason one may be taking sick leave, but my experience, as a Manager, is that almost without exception people will disclose their infirmity when calling in sick. You know the sort of thing: "I won't be in today; I have a dreadful migraine/tummy upset/flu" or whatever. As a Manager, I found it helpful in terms of planning cover or deferral of the absentee's commitments, in terms of their meetings, deadlines and so on. And of course, it manages everyone's expectations for someone might return to work.
As a Manager, I also had a responsibility to ensure that the people in my Span of Control were not being damaged in any way, by the work they are carrying out, or their workplace environment (adequate lighting/appropriate seating/monitor height etc).
It is a bit of a tricky path to tread - trying to empathise and support folks, without appearing to intrude into their private lives. For those with a disability, of any kind, it must be tricky to weigh up how much to disclose so that they are neither being disadvantaged, nor being seen as milking their circumstances, because as sure as eggs are eggs, there are always those who will think the best and worst of others.
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