Loving Life...
I agree, we do have to put ourselves first, and we shouldn't have to Martyrs. I have just been pretty lucky that unlike some diabetics in 25 yrs I haven't had complications or difficultys until now, and for that I have been so, so very lucky that because of this I have never had to take time off to go to appointments outside of my holidays, but when I was having bad night hypo's I never took time off the next day, like other's I just kept my head down at work, and nobody else from work was aware what was happening during the nights to me.
Like said, each to their own. We are all different, as are all non diabetics, there are always people that will have lots of time off work, and there always people that will never have time off work.