Ok some answers.
I don't believe you have a right to a particular pump such as the Omnipod. Basically you have to choose from what's on offer and that depends where you live.
I understand the issue about 5 days off work and I delayed DAFNE for nearly 2 years because of this. I have been T1 for twenty years and carb counting most of that time and I found the course incredibly valuable on all kinds of subjects I had never imagined. Even if the instructors had been useless (they weren't) it would have been worth it for the advice and experience from other diabetics on the course. I thought I knew it all, but I was dead wrong. Now I wish I had attended much earlier.
With an hba1c of 7.5 you are borderline eligible for a pump. The reason they insist on DAFNE is because they need to prove that you are doing MDI properly, according to the latest NHS advice, and still not achieving good HBA1C. Those are the NICE criteria, they can't vary those. So they are not being difficult with you and this is not a post code lottery, it is a national policy.
Having said all that, if you want a pump but are convinced DAFNE will be a waste of your time, you can just think of it as sitting in an empty room for a week in order to earn yourself 2 grand worth of free kit. Or, if you make more than 2 grand a week after tax, just buy yourself the pump of your choice.
Miraculously sent via Diabetes Forum App. Probably on the 4th or 5th try :-/