Thanks. Yes, I'm 40. I will take a look at the American forum for the meds advice, but the food thing is just not going to happen. I would be thoroughly miserable and I don't want that.
I know the consequences and I'll deal with that when it happens. I just want my enjoyment back until then. If I can find some meds that will do that, I will be happy.
I don't think that is a negative thing. For 40 years, I have lived life to the full. I have travelled to over 70 countries and experienced so much of this wonderful world.
Now that I am semi-retired I have the chance to experience so much more. I don't want that to be overshadowed by restrictive diets making me miserable and constantly having to think about this **** illness everywhere I go.
If I can find the right medication, I can get on with my life. Yes, I'm overweight. Yes, I eat too much. Yes, I eat the wrong things. Yes, I smoke. And yes, I probably drink a little bit too much beer. But that's who I am and I would far rather pop a few pills than change that.
If that means I crash out 10 or 20 years earlier, so be it. No regrets. I just need to get back on my feet between now and then.
This is actually quite interesting. Obviously the fasting days would be hell on earth, but at least it would mean it wouldn't be hanging over me all the time. That is what I am afraid of.
I don't want to be paranoid about everything that goes into my mouth. I don't want to worry about whether I'm allowed to have coffee and cake every time I go for a lakeside walk. I don't want to spend my travelling time looking for restaurants with the right foods.
The bottom line is I don't want everything to be about diabetes.
The reason I find it interesting is I suspect a lot of the problem is not what I eat, but how much. I have always had large portions of everything and simply don't feel satisfied after light meals.
Maybe I need to get my thyroid checked out?
I think you are feeling overwhelmed by it all.Too much. About 110kg.
I had a quick read of this article. I have some big problems with it - it actually states that lack of physical activity, along with increased life expectancy is to blame for the current diabetes epidemic (it isn't - our food is!), cautions against drinking alcohol, and eating red meat as big players in high blood glucose (my understanding is neither are). Then when it talks about "healthy diet" its first example is whole grains and cereals, second - you can guess - low fat food.
It did have a good list of 'anti-diabetes' medication.
So I would say - use this article for the great list of medication - ignore everything else.
Hello @Walter Wolf - some great posts in this thread which I hope will give you some reassurance and ideas when the time is right for you. Just an idea - a couple of other Forum members have posted about great low-carb cafes/restaurants in Germany (apologies, I can't remember who or where the places were, Berlin perhaps?): could you track one down and suggest to your friends that you all have a meal there? My group of friends take it in turns to suggest eating places, including new and different ones, like a vegan restaurant (not the greatest of successes for my carnivore friends!) and it's a good way of trying them out. That way you are still eating out and enjoying that social aspect and it might be a way of easing the way into LCHF, without you having to cook.I know exactly what you mean. I'm not in the US, but I spend about 6 weeks a year there and I know exactly what you mean. I love the food there and to be honest, if I lived there I would probably have died of a heart attack 5 years ago.
I actually work in Germany. The staples here are also quite high in carbs - nearly everything comes with a bread basket, and the bread here is fantastic. The portion sizes are also big, which I like.
Thanks for being so kind.
Wow I've only been diagnosed this last month but wow reading your food list was amazing. Can I really eat all those things, in moderation I know but I've gone all out, cut out so much its probably a little over the top tbh until the shock and the unknowns subside a bit. But reading that list of yours just cheered me up.
Haha, I really loved that part though! That's what I first read while going through this blog. Also, I'm still confused about the red meat thing. I read this https://harvardmagazine.com/2012/01/a-diabetes-link-to-meat and this another blog by WHO
http://www.searo.who.int/india/topics/diabetes_mellitus/en/
even they talk about red meat increasing the risk of diabetes. I'm not sure about this though, but I hope that you got some help just like I did and maybe it'll help others too. My initial HbA1C was 62 and now it is down to 49 in nearly two months. I hope you are doing fine too!
The pharmaceutical treatments are what I am focusing on now. I don't care how many pills I have to pop (as long as the bottom effects can be controlled) or even how much I have to pay the specialists. I just need to get back on my feet.
Faced with potentially life changing news/diagnosis, there is a pattern that that describes the phases people can go through - Shock -Anger-Denial-Acceptance, I believe there is also a degree of grieving for the previous care free life of being able to eat / drink whatever you want without thoughts of its effects - I went through this post diagnosis myself, why me , life is ruined, etc - but the reality of this condition is at least you have a choice - its your life and only you can decide the trade off between potential complications and perceived quality of life based on your perception of the restrictions and effort that dietary adjustments mean. You could argue that the quality of life of being free of worrying about your condition, to you, is more valuable than possibly extending your life without complications, its up to you at the end of the day-however, things may have moved on from the last time you controlled your diet, certainly the low fat approach is not necessary, and you may find you could make adjustments without feeling like the condition is totally controlling you ?. My brother is also T2 - my choice post diagnosis was LCHF and tight control of my blood glucose levels - I am happy with my life, my brother on the other hand, takes the metformin, smokes, eats pretty much what he likes - he has terrible levels, however, he his happy with his life - and I respect that - its a personal choice - all I would say is before you choose your path, at least have a look at what people on here are doing regarding dietary control and especially Intermittent Fasting - there could be ways that you could adapt without feeling like you are denying yourself the things that make you happy - at this point in time, whilst grieving for your pre-diagnosis, carefree life, you are probably not in the best frame of mind to make best choices - give yourself some time to come to terms with it - and choose what makes you happy - your life, your choice, its all a trade off in the end - good luck with whatever you do.Thank you all again for your kind contributions. Your time and effort is much appreciated.
Faced with potentially life changing news/diagnosis, there is a pattern that that describes the phases people can go through - Shock -Anger-Denial-Acceptance, I believe there is also a degree of grieving for the previous care free life of being able to eat / drink whatever you want without thoughts of its effects - I went through this post diagnosis myself, why me , life is ruined, etc - but the reality of this condition is at least you have a choice - its your life and only you can decide the trade off between potential complications and perceived quality of life based on your perception of the restrictions and effort that dietary adjustments mean. You could argue that the quality of life of being free of worrying about your condition, to you, is more valuable than possibly extending your life without complications, its up to you at the end of the day-however, things may have moved on from the last time you controlled your diet, certainly the low fat approach is not necessary, and you may find you could make adjustments without feeling like the condition is totally controlling you ?. My brother is also T2 - my choice post diagnosis was LCHF and tight control of my blood glucose levels - I am happy with my life, my brother on the other hand, takes the metformin, smokes, eats pretty much what he likes - he has terrible levels, however, he his happy with his life - and I respect that - its a personal choice - all I would say is before you choose your path, at least have a look at what people on here are doing regarding dietary control and especially Intermittent Fasting - there could be ways that you could adapt without feeling like you are denying yourself the things that make you happy - at this point in time, whilst grieving for your pre-diagnosis, carefree life, you are probably not in the best frame of mind to make best choices - give yourself some time to come to terms with it - and choose what makes you happy - your life, your choice, its all a trade off in the end - good luck with whatever you do.
Like Ellie says, the purely pharmaceutical route will probably end up with you on insulin, and then you’ll really have to count every morsel you eat to get the dose right.Not meaning this in a nasty way, but be aware that if you go along the pharmaceutical route without some reduction in carbohydrate you will probably end up having to take insulin via injection. And I honestly don't recommend that as an option. But there's nothing wrong with getting some decent pharmaceutical help, it just may not be enough on its own. Good luck.
Too much. About 110kg.
When I started eating low carb medium fat I didn't keep a food diary or weigh food - the only monitoring I did was to test my BS to see what effect the food I was eating had on me and if my BS went too high I wouldn't eat it again or have it in smaller portions and if I stayed within range I would eat it again. I don't go very low carb and still enjoy most foods inc bread and potatoes in moderation and my hba1c has been between 35 and 38 (currently 35) for the last 4 years. Although you may think it's a pain for the first few months you will soon learn what you can and cannot eat - you may be surprised. I also don't worry too much if, once in a while, I have to eat more carbs than I usually do because nothing else is available - this is one advantage of being diet only but I'm not sure if you would have that flexibility on insulin as I think you will still need to count carbs so you may not gain the freedom that you think you will. Ultimately it's your decision but I rarely test now and still have control of my diabetes. In addition I rarely test now but it is a useful guide to see how the BS levels are doing. Good luck in your choice but consider tryng diet first - I'm sure even you can make scrambed eggs in the microwave and fry some bacon!Thank you everyone for your responses.
As regards the dieting, it is not what I can or can't eat, it is the constant monitoring. I am well aware that there are many nice things I can eat on a low-carb diet.
I just can't handle constantly having it on my mind - I can't handle the "Can I eat this? How many grams is that? Is there anything else? Where can I find a low-carb _______?" If I start thinking like that, then this illness will take over what's left of my life. I don't want that. I want my life back.
The pharmaceutical treatments are what I am focusing on now. I don't care how many pills I have to pop (as long as the bottom effects can be controlled) or even how much I have to pay the specialists. I just need to get back on my feet.
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