Welcome. It is a daunting task to get your BS down, especially in the face of a system that tells you diabetes is inevitably progressive and you will get worse, whatever you do.
I also have high readings in the morning due to liver dumps, there is some usefuladvice on the thread I started the other day as it is something I am experiencing.
Since my diagnosis in February I have made several stepwise changes.
1. Cut out all added sugar and junk, by which I mean sweet and fatty treats, except I still had regular lapses :roll:
and still have lapses now, although the nature of my sins has changed :lol: 8)
2. Added fresh and raw most of the time, and made sure I ate breakfast, I started with porridge with oat bran and now mostly eat a greek yoghurt based breakfast, yum, except at weekends when I have someting cooked.
3. I did that for a few weeks while I was looking for a diet I could stick to and looked like normal food - I'm a fairly strict vegetarian (eating eggs and cheese) and wanted to be able to eat the same food as my 12-year-old.
4. I explored low GI diets and adopted more of the principles of that regime, which is really useful.
5. After a few weeks reading on here I went lower carb - by that I mean I stopped eating bread, pasta, rice and potato and any flour products.
6. After a couple of months of that I started to weigh stuff to restrict the number of carbs I was a eating, I have been doing this for the last couple of weeks.
Every time I have made a change I have seen a positive change in my blood test results and the excess weight is falling away with very little effort on my part (I have to be half the woman I was at diagnosis). Initially the blood work was being done at the surgery. I have been testing several times a day for about 2 months with my own meter.
Make a plan. Set yourself smaller and realistic targets and review them regularly, I don't think massive changes all at once are sustainable in the long term, and you won't actually know what is working for you. This is hard work, don't make it harder on yourself than you need to be. My focus has always been the next blood test with the doctor. I'm asking for an HbA1c at the end of August and I hope to be much closer to 6%.
My ultimate aim is for normal blood sugar readings and to keep them there long term. I also want to have enough confidence to eat "off plan" every once in a while and then get myself back on track before it shows in the longer term readings.