Hi Bob
Good choice coming here for advice and you are right to be concerned, it could well be he is not fully understanding the condition even with being diabetic a couple of years. :shock:
You say he checks reguarly which is good but It sounds to me (and I am no medical expert
) he knows he is low and drinks his lucozade which is over correcting the problem and when he checks again he is too high so maybe he is injecting more insulin to compensate for this. Which can result in insulin build up and bad hypos.
Taking into account you say you know little about diabetes I will try and explain best I can and for this I am just assuming he is your average type 1 diabetic injecting insulin.
He will probably be taking a long acting insulin which is a background insulin for the sake of argument we will say it works slowly all day and night lowering the sugar levels.
When he gets up in the morning his blood sugar should be reasonably normal because the long acting insulin has kept it that way. He will be eating breakfast and that will push up his sugar levels (BG) so he will take a rapid insulin to bring that down. This will continue to lower his BG for roughly the next four to five hours, so if he has the dose right he should be ready to eat something at lunch, if he has it wrong his BG will go low and usually a digestive biscuit or snack is enough to raise it. (A bottle of lucozade will raise it too much).
At lunch he should be checking his BG, if its higher than it should be he may take insulin to reduce it and cover what he’s having for lunch. (Not forgetting the long acting is still working in the background and if he skipped lunch his BG would continue to drop because of this.) Now say he has lunch, and he does not sound a salad type of chap, so he may take some insulin to cover what he has for lunch, again this will last roughly four to five hours so he will be ready to eat again at tea time and take his insulin. So you get the idea background insulin works all day bringing levels down and rapid insulin lasts for about four to five hours peaks at about two and trails off and is used to bring down BG from eating.
He may be taking too much long acting (background insulin) which is keeping him very low, and when he takes his short acting or rapid insulin he’s taking too much for what he’s eating. Hence the hypos. Or it could be he has cut down on his food intake to maybe lose weight but has not adjusted his insulin accordingly.
Hope the above makes some kind of sense its just to give you a rough idea what its all about, everyone is slightly different depending on what insulin they use and how they manage it. Sorry if you know the above but I am just assuming you don’t and it will allow you to work out the times he hypos, because its my bet it will be roughly around the same times of the day. For example if he takes too much insulin at breakfast say 8am he will by hypo around 10 or 11am. Too much at lunch, hypo around 2pm. If it is random he is probably injecting insulin to bring levels down before previous insulin expires.
Now the problem of tackling it, I actually don’t think it’s that tricky. Someone who ever is the most tactful or gets on with him best should sit down and have a chat with him, he may be grateful for it, often there is no one to talk to and it takes someone else to say, I really think you need to have a chat with your doctor.
One example, sorry to witter on. ! I was working at a place and I suspected one of the managers was diabetic. So one day I left my meter on the table purposely so he would see it. He asked if I was diabetic which I said yes, his answer was, oh good I need someone to talk to. He had been diagnosed for over a year and had no clue how to manage it, at first he said he was fine then it started going wrong but because the doctor said inject x amount at x and y amount at y and if you feel ill or your BG is low drink lucozade.
He thought the problem was him, so your chap could be in the same boat and like most men does not want to admit things are not right, is he the type of chap who likes to think he is in control of everything. He may be as worried as you but feels its his problem. Hypos are horrible.
Have a chat with him you might just find he needs someone to confide in, if you do that and it fails, at least you tried. Maybe he can’t see how bad he has become, I take it he has got worse over the time you have known him for you to be so concerned.
Diabetes can be a real pain and when its balanced lovely jubbly, 8) when its not, you are seeing the result.
Good luck.