If he is conscious, and able to reason with her, I do not think she needs to call an ambulance.
alas, there is no magic number at which an ambulance is required. I have been in teh 1.somethings, and been quite conscious, but been unconcious at a reading of 2.8.
I would say, if he is conscious, and she can get glucose into him, be it by mouth of injection, and she is somewhere, where help could arrive quickly, no need for an ambulance...but,
Even if he is conscious, but won't take any glucose and is lashing out, she should get help.
Completely normal to fall before they rise again.
I have needed an ambuilance a couiple of times (when I was pregnant) I never needed to goto hopital. The ambulance crew come out, and on one occasiona I had co;;apsed in eth street, so they fed me my own glucose tablets until I came round. they then got me to buy a sandwich and sat my in teh back ofthe ambulance whilst I ate it. they then sent me on my way.
the other times I have been unconsious, and then they put a dripp in your arm, and satay with you until you BG is back above (I think) 6. They make sure that there is someone with you. I guess they would only take you to hospital is you didn't come round, or, you did, but they would be leaving you on your own.
It worth passingthis on to your friend, as it may help her persuade her husband. Please also be aware that any hypo, requiring assisance, be it from her, or from a paramedic is something that, on the DVLA forms needs to be reported.