Hi
@Tilly_S
No, you're not being silly worrying. I worried about this too, and I suspect pretty much all ladies with diabetes worry too. I'd also add that stillbirth happens to women without diabetes too, so it's a general pregnancy worry.
I used to record my baby's movements. Not every single kick, but just notes so that I'mcould look,back over my records and see whether the actually was a decrease in movements. Once you've got the fear in your head, it's really hard not to,worry, and I found keeping records helped me be more objective, and also like I was doing something helpful.
You were quite right to get checked out, and never ever be afraid to phone up and get checked out again. That's what the teams are there for.
Do you know where your placenta is because that can affect how much movements are felt? Remember too that it will also depend whch way baby is facing.
I suggest you speak to,your consultant about your concerns. I think the frequency of scans varies. I had a growth scan every three weeks in the final weeks of pregnancy but other ladies had them every two weeks. The induction date is a balance between 'not letting things go on too long' and not delivering the baby too early which may cause other problems (babies of diabetic mums are sometimes behind in lung maturity).
What I will say is the fact that you're aware of how important monitoring baby's movements are (for every mum) suggests you'd be well-placed to spot any problem or changes.
Keep vigilant, use your intuition, but try to balance your justified concerns with keeping calm.
If you ever feel something isn't right, phone triage immediately. They have lots of calls from mums just like you and 99 times out of 100 everything is ok, but they'd still rather see you and check.
I know how stressful it is {{big hug}} xxx