Alison Campbell
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- Type of diabetes
- Type 2
- Treatment type
- Tablets (oral)
I've been thinking about your post and you have been given some great ideas for your visit. But I think you maybe looking at it from the wrong direction.
She loves you and thinks she know's what is best for you and what will make you happy.
Every time you give in, you reinforce that she is right and she does know what is best for you. You have to change your response to her firmly but with love.
You get through to your mum by saying no thank you and mean it. No ifs, buts or maybe's. No arguments needed or negative comments about her past behaviour. If you feel yourself getting stressed go for a walk or my favourite at the in-laws, clean up in the kitchen.
She loves you and thinks she know's what is best for you and what will make you happy.
Every time you give in, you reinforce that she is right and she does know what is best for you. You have to change your response to her firmly but with love.
You get through to your mum by saying no thank you and mean it. No ifs, buts or maybe's. No arguments needed or negative comments about her past behaviour. If you feel yourself getting stressed go for a walk or my favourite at the in-laws, clean up in the kitchen.