Thank you for your help. I am obviously finding it harder to give up old habits than I thought! I want this to be a lifestyle change for me, so it has to be do-able. I don't want to resent the fact that I can never eat anything I fancy (eg carbs). A typical day's food for me has been:
Porage and raspberries or 6 pecan nuts (I know porage is high carb, but was working on this being the bulk I would consume in a day, and to keep me going until lunch), or Greek yoghurt with cherries/strawberries (4 of each). I have to watch full fat yoghurt as sometimes it upsets my digestive system (I think due to not having a gall bladder?)
4 brazil nuts if I need a snack (for instance after swimming or zumba class)
Salad with avocado and prawns or smoked salmon or feta/cottage cheese plus olive oil/balsamic
chicken or vegetable stir fry with lots of vegetables and giving the carbs to my husband
1 large square or 2 small squares of over 70% cocoa solids dark chocolate with decaff coffee/almond milk in the evening. That is my treat for the day.
Over the 5 weeks I have lost: 5lb, 1lb, 1.6lb, 1.4lb, 0.2lb (away from home for 5 days and birthday partying)
It doesn't help that I cannot cook properly as I am having building work/kitchen refit, and I am currently cooking in the porch with the help of a microwave and one-ring induction hob! Not having an oven or grill is limiting. Perhaps I just have to eat fewer calories, fewer carbohydrates and less dairy. I don't feel that I am over-using oil, as I have been years and years used to low fat/dry frying and don't like my food saturated in anything. Must be enjoying food too much!