@Julie27318 - The lifespan statistics for any group of the population tend to be based on either assumptions or an historic picture.
In times gone past, T1s using insulin didn't have the testing resources we have now, so a lot more of their day to day management was somewhat hit and miss, and nor were the insulins they took quite as predictable in terms of how they work in the human body.
That's not to say that everything is hunky-dory for T1s today, but certainly things, in terms of tools available to aid management, things have improved generally.
Like all things medical, much can depend on the individual and how much care they take of themselves. A T1 given all the tools in the world, but choosing not to do them isn't likely to have a smooth ride through life, but someone taking great care of themselves will usually do better. Like all things there will be exceptions to those rules.
I am fortunate to know an 87 year old T1, who has been T1 since his early teens. Six months ago I could have stated that he was completely hail and hearty, and riding his bicycle every day and still playing badminton a couple of times a week, but in the last couple of months he's had a couple of things crop up that are cramping his style a bit!
Let's face it, if at 87 he's knocking 15-20 years off his life, he'd otherwise be going until at least 102, or even older.
Like many things in life, when a challenge comes our way, it is very much up to us to make the best of what we have, and if diabetes is part of our person package, we have to get on and learn to live our best lives with that passenger along the way.
If your friend is doing their very best to manage their diabetes carefully and striving for healthy levels, there's not much else they can do. None of us know how much longer we have to live, and could have some accident befall us at any time.
If my immediate family history were to have a bearing on my lifespan, then my father died when he was only a year or so older than I am not, but my mother lasted a bit longer, until 75. My intention is to do my best to outlive them and grow old disgracefully. We don't have the whole answer in our hands, but we can help stack the hand of cards we're dealt into our favour.