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Clabburn

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Type of diabetes
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Diet only
Did not know I was diabetic and had no symptoms really, other than weeing a couple of times a night ??. I take BP medication and had blood tests done at the start of Jan 2015 , as I am very over weight the doc asked if she could do a diabetes test. Hba1c 51 and subsequent fasting blood test, four days later was 7.6
I was given some leaflets which I read and googled everything and have scared myself stupid. I suffer with anxiety / depression and this has made life awful for the past 5 weeks since diagnosis. I have read these forums today and I don't feel so alone in this ...... I am only 42 and feel its only older people that usually have this?. Did anyone else feel scared and how did you become reassured that it can be dealt with?. The complications are on my mind all day, every day :(
I have lost 2 stone since diagnosis am really hoping that will have a positive effect on Hba1c ? prob need to loose another 5 stone.
Grrrrrr why is life feeling like its crashed to the ground ? :(
Jane xx
 
[JoKe] might be easier to stay stressed till the other 5st is gone :)
first of all cook up some bacon and eggs with a fried tomato..very low carb and good for you, it sounds like you have been too scared to eat.

then sit back and have a read


a lot here eat LCHF...what I did was reduce carbs..all grain, grain product and starchy veg like potato
From the southport gp here
http://www.practicaldiabetes.com/Sp.../March 2014/PP Unwin final proofs revised.pdf

it’s a long page and a few good video’s
http://www.dietdoctor.com/lchf
For me, the more carbs we eat the more carbs we want. they don’t give up easy
http://lowcarbdiets.about.com/od/lowcarb101/a/firstweek.htm
 
Hello Jane

And welcome to a supportive community ...

Have a read around , join in as much as you want and @daisy1 will be along with some great starting information for you to read ...

Best wishes ..Kat ..

Yes we have all been there with our feelings and emotions ...they never really go away I don't think , you just learn how to adapt to them differently ..
 
Welcome:)
I was petrified when diagnosed type 1 ,nearlly 11 yrs ago,i didn't know any other diabetics and was scared, i joined here a few yrs in and found a mountain of knowledge and support,
Stick around and try not to worry
 
@Clabburn

Hello Jane and welcome to the forum :)

The more you understand about diabetes the better you will feel about it. Here is the information we give to new members and I hope you will find it useful. Ask all the questions you need to and someone will come along and help.


BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEWLY DIAGNOSED DIABETICS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you’ll find over 130,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.
There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates

Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

Another option is to replace ‘white carbohydrates’ (such as white bread, white rice, white flour etc) with whole grain varieties. The idea behind having whole grain varieties is that the carbohydrates get broken down slower than the white varieties –and these are said to have a lower glycaemic index.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/food/diabetes-and-whole-grains.html

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips

The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to bloodglucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
 
Hi Jane, welcome. An HbA1c is not too bad at all (lower than mine was on diagnosis) and with the right diet and support from us here you can manage this and reduce the risk of complications to negligible or less!

Reducing carbohydrates as well as sugars is the key. Have a read around, including the first item in my sig below and ask any questions.
 
Hello Clabburn.
Yes it can be difficult coming to terms with it and I remember reading all the horror stories about complications and thinking that the sky was going to fall in. But rest assured that it's all manageable with the right approach.

You're here and not denying it (as some do), and that's important.
 
Did not know I was diabetic and had no symptoms really, other than weeing a couple of times a night ??. I take BP medication and had blood tests done at the start of Jan 2015 , as I am very over weight the doc asked if she could do a diabetes test. Hba1c 51 and subsequent fasting blood test, four days later was 7.6
I was given some leaflets which I read and googled everything and have scared myself stupid. I suffer with anxiety / depression and this has made life awful for the past 5 weeks since diagnosis. I have read these forums today and I don't feel so alone in this ...... I am only 42 and feel its only older people that usually have this?. Did anyone else feel scared and how did you become reassured that it can be dealt with?. The complications are on my mind all day, every day :(
I have lost 2 stone since diagnosis am really hoping that will have a positive effect on Hba1c ? prob need to loose another 5 stone.
Grrrrrr why is life feeling like its crashed to the ground ? :(
Jane xx

Hiya :) Well done on your weight loss! I have a chronic anxiety disorder and find that my anxiety has lessened significantly since being diagnosed with type 2 diabetes. Initially, it is freaky, but once you get used to it, you'll be fine. I have taken control and now do not have huge swings in my blood sugar levels. Less swinging = less anxiety. I hope you can enjoy this benefit too x
 
Hello and welcome.
I was scared at first and very anxious.
You will be fine,just read round the forum.
 
Did not know I was diabetic and had no symptoms really, other than weeing a couple of times a night ??. I take BP medication and had blood tests done at the start of Jan 2015 , as I am very over weight the doc asked if she could do a diabetes test. Hba1c 51 and subsequent fasting blood test, four days later was 7.6
I was given some leaflets which I read and googled everything and have scared myself stupid. I suffer with anxiety / depression and this has made life awful for the past 5 weeks since diagnosis. I have read these forums today and I don't feel so alone in this ...... I am only 42 and feel its only older people that usually have this?. Did anyone else feel scared and how did you become reassured that it can be dealt with?. The complications are on my mind all day, every day :(
I have lost 2 stone since diagnosis am really hoping that will have a positive effect on Hba1c ? prob need to loose another 5 stone.
Grrrrrr why is life feeling like its crashed to the ground ? :(
Jane xx

Hi there Clabburn,

Welcome to the forum. I am very new to it but have had type 1 for 33 years.

If you know no one with diabetes or have very little knowledge on it , it can be very frightening but it is an illness that you can live with and you can lead an active life the same as anyone who lives without it.

Actually 7.6 is actually not a bad reading for a diagnoses. I was almost in a coma when I was diagnosed.

Complications come due to long term high blood sugars so obviously the lower you can keep them the better but you need to read through some of the other posts on here to get to know the illness a little better.

I have had diabetes for well over three decades and I still have my sight, I still have all my limbs and up to as yet my kidneys and heart seem to be doing alright. I have nerve damage but after 33 years I accept that.

Like you I suffer with an anxiety disorder for which I take meds so I know how hard it is through my own experiences but as I said keep close and learn. I don't obsess about my diabetes, its part of my life and I respect it.

The people on this forum know what they are talking about. Stay close Clabburn in these early days and your'll be fine.

KevFitz
 
I Jane & welcome.
I was hbA1c of 52 at diagnoses & my 1st 3 months hbA1c was down to 44, thanks to the great advice on here & the lchf diet.
I also went from 8w2kg to now hovering between 72 - 74 witch suits me fine as my bmi is 22ish which is fine.
So just readings learn & ask & things will be fine.;)
 
Hi Jane,
I'm also very new to this, was diagnosed 8 months ago with a bg of 22.8. It scared me completely and I got very anxious. I still don't quite know what I'm doing but i finally have my appointment next week for a diabetes awareness course so I hope this helps understand things better.
Well done on the weight loss, I've struggled with losing weight since diagnosis so what's your trick? I've reduced my carb intake and upped my exercise but still only a couple of pounds off in the last 8 months!!
 
Did not know I was diabetic and had no symptoms really, other than weeing a couple of times a night ??. I take BP medication and had blood tests done at the start of Jan 2015 , as I am very over weight the doc asked if she could do a diabetes test. Hba1c 51 and subsequent fasting blood test, four days later was 7.6
I was given some leaflets which I read and googled everything and have scared myself stupid. I suffer with anxiety / depression and this has made life awful for the past 5 weeks since diagnosis. I have read these forums today and I don't feel so alone in this ...... I am only 42 and feel its only older people that usually have this?. Did anyone else feel scared and how did you become reassured that it can be dealt with?. The complications are on my mind all day, every day :(
I have lost 2 stone since diagnosis am really hoping that will have a positive effect on Hba1c ? prob need to loose another 5 stone.
Grrrrrr why is life feeling like its crashed to the ground ? :(
Jane xx
There are thousands of members on this site .... thankfully they don't all come on at once!
We've all got it.
This is the best place you could possibly have arrived at along your journey .... a journey none of us really wanted to be on.
The stuff people will be telling you .... the stuff you'll be browsing may well seem confusing at first even crazy .... you want to lose weight go have a fry up ..... that kind of crazy.
It is life saving believe me.
Once you have calmed down and you will .... once you start to get your head around it and you will .... you'll start seeing improvements feeling better having a laugh with the inmates and ..... helping others that arrive just like you have.
Stick with us .... bookmark this place .... tattoo your password on your forehead .... don't lose this incredible place now you have found it.
Welcome .... love and peas.
 
Hi Jane, I thought the same as you, diagnosed T2 just 1 month ago aged 40, my HbA1c was 101, I have also lost 2 stone, the weight is falling off me at the moment, but I suspect at some point this will slow down, when that happens I'll work at it until I reach a weight that is healthy and one I'm comfortable with.

Yes I was scared, still am a little but I have to say like everything in life it's the not knowing that is the worst part, I have spent just over 3 weeks here reading reading reading and more reading and have largely shed my fear in the confidence that I can keep my bloods normal with the right amount of exercise and diet.

Once you have good permanent control of your bloods you have effectively hit the brakes on your diabetes, at this point there is no reason you can't go on to live a life exactly as long and happy as you would of without diabetes, in fact you will likely be more healthy more energised and more motivated. So don't fear, look forward to a new more healthy you.

I have started the LCHF after so many here endorse it, it's almost a deity of the community, and in just 1 month it's had a profound effect on me, which I have to admit has me borderline excited about my health and the future x

Daks
 
Hi and welcome Jane.. I'm a newbie too and have so much to learn having only been diagnosed t2 just after Christmas... I know it is scary and there is so much information to absorb... so many new things to learn and adapt to... but we can do this... I am so blessed to have found this site and have learned so much already... I initially liked diabetes.co.uk on facebook and interesting items would start to filter through on my news feed... and I would find myself recalling things to buy etc when going round the supermarket... We still have a way to go.. but there are people who have been going through this for years and are/have been really helpful <3
 
Hi Jane, I thought the same as you, diagnosed T2 just 1 month ago aged 40, my HbA1c was 101, I have also lost 2 stone, the weight is falling off me at the moment, but I suspect at some point this will slow down, when that happens I'll work at it until I reach a weight that is healthy and one I'm comfortable with.

Yes I was scared, still am a little but I have to say like everything in life it's the not knowing that is the worst part, I have spent just over 3 weeks here reading reading reading and more reading and have largely shed my fear in the confidence that I can keep my bloods normal with the right amount of exercise and diet.

Once you have good permanent control of your bloods you have effectively hit the brakes on your diabetes, at this point there is no reason you can't go on to live a life exactly as long and happy as you would of without diabetes, in fact you will likely be more healthy more energised and more motivated. So don't fear, look forward to a new more healthy you.

I have started the LCHF after so many here endorse it, it's almost a deity of the community, and in just 1 month it's had a profound effect on me, which I have to admit has me borderline excited about my health and the future x

Daks
Hiya Daks.
The low carb high fat sounded so daft when I first arrived here that I left!
Stupid people spouting hoodoo voodoo new age rubbish.
Overweight wanna lose weight ... have a fry up .... yeah right.
When I came back couldn't remember what name I used what email addy what password so joined again .... I never looked back.
Since catching diabetes off a toilet seat in a dirty run down petrol station .... this place is the best place that happened to me.
Not the doctors nurses hospitals .... this place.
 
Hi Jane,
I'm also very new to this, was diagnosed 8 months ago with a bg of 22.8. It scared me completely and I got very anxious. I still don't quite know what I'm doing but i finally have my appointment next week for a diabetes awareness course so I hope this helps understand things better.
Well done on the weight loss, I've struggled with losing weight since diagnosis so what's your trick? I've reduced my carb intake and upped my exercise but still only a couple of pounds off in the last 8 months!!

Hi @Sammykernow & welcome to the forum, you have certainly come to the right place for lots of help and information plus a lot of support.

I will tag @daisy1 , she will be along with a long list of very helpful information we give to all new members. Maybe in the morning now though.

Please look a round the forum and don't be afraid to ask what ever questions you need to.

It does take a while for you to get your head around all this.

Neil
Ps as for the weight loss are you doing the full Low Carbohydrate High Fat (LCHF) diet, are you testing before and after meals. Have you cut out nearly all Bread Potatoes Rice Pasta.
 
@Sammykernow

Hi Sammy and welcome to the forum :) If you look further up this thread you will find the information we give to new members which Neil mentioned and I hope you will find it useful. The link is also in my signature below. Ask as many questions as you like and someone will be able to help.
 
Did not know I was diabetic and had no symptoms really, other than weeing a couple of times a night ??. I take BP medication and had blood tests done at the start of Jan 2015 , as I am very over weight the doc asked if she could do a diabetes test. Hba1c 51 and subsequent fasting blood test, four days later was 7.6
I was given some leaflets which I read and googled everything and have scared myself stupid. I suffer with anxiety / depression and this has made life awful for the past 5 weeks since diagnosis. I have read these forums today and I don't feel so alone in this ...... I am only 42 and feel its only older people that usually have this?. Did anyone else feel scared and how did you become reassured that it can be dealt with?. The complications are on my mind all day, every day :(
I have lost 2 stone since diagnosis am really hoping that will have a positive effect on Hba1c ? prob need to loose another 5 stone.
Grrrrrr why is life feeling like its crashed to the ground ? :(
Jane xx
Felt exactly the same. It does get better. Shock passes and you just 'get on with things'
A lot you can do to avoid those nasty complications, let them motivate you but not terrify you.
 
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