Hi. Happy new year! I recently broke up with my girlfriend who I was with for 6 years. I was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes in may 2011 and also have rheumatoid arthritis which was diagnosed in June 2012. As my life has changed so much it put a huge strain on the relationship. I think she struggled to understand how much is involved in maintaining good control on both conditions. Anyway. I'm just looking for advice on when tell people you have diabetes . Should I keep it to myself for a while or should just tell people from the get go? Any advice much appreciated.