Hi. It's my first post, so first let me say "hello" to everyone out there!
My question is about my stepson. He's 10 years old, and was diagnosed with Type-1 diabetes when he was 6.
I've known him since he just turned 8, and in nearly 3 years, NOTHING has changed with regards to his "acceptance" of the condition, or the "management" of the condition.
95 times out of 100, he has to be reminded to do his blood sugar tests. I find that strange...he's had it at least 4 years, which means at least 3000 tests will have been done...yet he still needs reminding.
When we've asked him why he can't remember, he says it's not that he CAN'T remember, it's that he WON'T remember.
He knows about the consequences of not controlling his sugar levels, but says that he doesn't care.
He's also (in my opinion) exceptionally withdrawn, to the point where he has rejected friendships with other children because (in his words) he "doesn't want any friends".
We've checked with his school, and he doesn't appear to be being bullied.
His mum and I both think that he's decided that his life is not worth living because he's diabetic (which, of course, is NOT the case). We've tried to tell him about famous sportsmen and actors etc. who have the same condition, but he's not interested.
So I'm asking members of this forum - has he decided to "play the victim", or is this perfectly normal behaviour for a 10 year old boy in today's society?!
Thanks
My question is about my stepson. He's 10 years old, and was diagnosed with Type-1 diabetes when he was 6.
I've known him since he just turned 8, and in nearly 3 years, NOTHING has changed with regards to his "acceptance" of the condition, or the "management" of the condition.
95 times out of 100, he has to be reminded to do his blood sugar tests. I find that strange...he's had it at least 4 years, which means at least 3000 tests will have been done...yet he still needs reminding.
When we've asked him why he can't remember, he says it's not that he CAN'T remember, it's that he WON'T remember.
He knows about the consequences of not controlling his sugar levels, but says that he doesn't care.
He's also (in my opinion) exceptionally withdrawn, to the point where he has rejected friendships with other children because (in his words) he "doesn't want any friends".
We've checked with his school, and he doesn't appear to be being bullied.
His mum and I both think that he's decided that his life is not worth living because he's diabetic (which, of course, is NOT the case). We've tried to tell him about famous sportsmen and actors etc. who have the same condition, but he's not interested.
So I'm asking members of this forum - has he decided to "play the victim", or is this perfectly normal behaviour for a 10 year old boy in today's society?!
Thanks