@Viv19 thanks for sharing your experiences. I so relate to not wanting to count calories! And obsessing on food. With me it’s the other end of the scale - I get scared of eating anything. I like stir fry veg too. Do you use recipes for curry sauces? Or use sauces from jars etc? I used to make a nice rice based stir fry where I used curry powder for the curry kick. And added in veg and sometimes a bit of meat. But I have a feeling it will be overpowering on veg alone, even if cauliflower is the base - though I haven’t tried it. Good idea to have in mind an idea of food/meals for the day. I might be lucky, as my old guy is generally willing to eat the same as me. But I know his tastes, so I sometimes add in an extra, which I might not bother with on my own but which still agrees with my prediabetic needs. I also give him a larger portion of any of the ‘healthier’ carbs we’re including (I’m guessing the 800 diet won’t have those, though - & guess I need to read the book to be sure). Only trouble is, I can’t get away with trying to feed him anything (independently) with high carb or sugar anymore, as he’s absorbed the info and logic of it all - and reminds me ‘we can’t have that’!