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Allykat

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Hi all.

I'm new to posting on here but I have been lurking and reading for a short while. I feel like a bit of a "gatecrasher" as I am not diabetic. My partner of 2 1/2 years has been Type 1 for 32 years and although he doesn't necessarily keep his diabetes to himself he doesn't necessarily explain things very well.....I've had no experience of diabetes so I'm here to learn, and I am learning more about diabetes and living with diabetes than I ever thought I would. For that alone I thank you all :D

Reading your posts have really helped me to understand what living with diabetes is like and what my partner may be feeling when hypo. I'm not sure I'll be able to offer anyone any advice but I'm happy to continue reading and learning if your happy to have me here :D
 
Hi,

There are many 'lurkers' around here, who just like to read and rarely post. It's good you decided to post though.

There are many people who post on behalf of someone who has diabetes. There are many parents who post on their childrens diabetes.

The forum is for those who have diabetes, those who are involved with people who have diabetes, people who are curious about diabetes, even for those who want to post unrelated to diabetes.

You are very welcome here, maybe your advice could be an outsiders view of diabetes, which is always useful :) and from what you know about diabetes from your partner.

so hello, keep reading and hopefully youll keep posting too! :)
 
Gosh....very good question ..what can a hypo feel like...??

Well, so many of us have differing happenings when hypo, and we can have so many symptoms that others watch out for.

With me, the vast majority of the time nowadays I don't actually think in my head, I am going hypo, I need sugar....BUT I do know that I need to test my blood and eat, but mentally I don't think hypo, but I definitely know that I need to test me blood.

Hwoever, if I have balleds up like I did at Christmas, when I accidentally tested my blood, and my machine told me I was high (hadn't washed hands), and I was actually low- unfortunately I believed my pump machine and whacked up the basal rates, and whacked through a correction bolus. Within 3 minutes I was needing 3rd party intervention from my husband. He didn't realise the extra overdose I had wrongfully given me.....however, he does know that I do the following: ' incoherent rambling speech, and glazed eyes. Then I tend to go to the floor or to the toilet, or to somewhere I think I can go to toilet (the garden has been known!!!)...I also then start screaming help me, help me, help me. He know never to let me wander off by myself, as I did this 20+ years ago, from a shop that I was managing-and was missing for 5 hours with the shop and safe keys!!!

If I get to 3rd party intervention, then I really am acting as if very, very drunk. I can hear and respond, but find it very difficult. I remember things afterwards...at Christmas I can remember wanting to hit out at my husband, but I didn't' and this was the first time he had ever seen me threatening to hit out at him.....I always remember thinking about my dogs, and always trying to to kiss them and hug them. When I am out of hyp, the first things I ask about are my dogs.

These are very rare. Christmas was an absolute **** up with not washing my hands after handling food....3rd party intervention is very, very rare, and the few instances I have mentioned are over a period of 26 years.

There is nothing to describe a hypo, as far as I am concerned, but my memories can be prompted, and although initally I don't know what has happened in 3rd party intervention, little things promt me to remember some of it aftewards. I do confess thought the 5 hours I was missing with the shop and safe keys have always been blank, besides what I was told of being found on a dual carriageway (stumbling) with clothes dirtied and blood and bruised, and apparently a lovely person thought he had hit me, and stopped and I begged him not to leave me, he bot me to hospital, initally thinking I was drunk. I came round later and he had left, but he had left his name and phone number with the hospital. I later phoned him and thanked him. Truly what happened on that one day, I will never know, but I am thankfully still here.

They are my worst scenarios...normally I will feel as if I have a slight headache and just needing to check my blood, and another sign fo rme is that I know I start for some reason to find myself really tired....

There are so many feelings I suspect that so many people get, but they really are quite undescribable at the latter stages. I wouldn't wish them on my worst enemy.

I was glad to actually see a hypo diabetic on a true life documentary in the last couple of months, as I would really like to see just what I am like, but my hubby is so good at helping me-he is far more interested in doing that, than videoing me!!!!!!

I have listed the worst scenario's for me, generally though I know that my friends can't tell if I am low. My husband does, and fortunately although I do not think the exact words of 'hypo' in my head, I know for some reason that I need to eat and do a blood test.
 
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