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mendip

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My name is Liz and I am a diabetic. It's taken almost a year for me to stand up and say that. I just thought I was an aging fat, exhausted, mildly demented woman in late middle age who visited the lavvy so many times a night that I was keeping the whole house up with my nocturnal waterings. A large pack of MnMs would be followed by a fuzzily comforting sleep, out cold as if bashed soundly over the head with a very large mallet. And still I didn't twig. Then they did a blood test as part of a whole barrage and I was told the news. Reaction? Fury. Fury that I couldn't continue to destroy my health with all those wonderful carbs. Don't tell me what I can and can't eat! Swiftly followed by determination. I was going straight on the Newcastle Diet, give it 3 months and i'd reverse this rubbish. That lasted all of one week. The last few months have been about denial with a Cap D..
Now I've accepted it nd here I am. Pleased to meet you fellow diabetics. But God, it's a pain in the **** isn't it ???!
 
Hi liz


YES it is a pain in the **** but one that's worth lancing or at least having a good pick at!!!!!

Well done you, on getting on here and getting some bloody useful info.

Anger - we;ve all been there. Looks like you're ready for acceptance.

It really isn't the end of the world , just a chance for you to change the way you approach your food and make a great difference to your life.

Ask loads of questions, there is bound to be loads

Mary x
 
Hello Liz

Welcome to the forum :) Diabetes is a total pain in the ****, but the satisfaction you get as you start to gain control over it is immense and it can become a positive factor in your life.

Daisy will be along with her welcome post as will others who are very knowledgeable about low carbing which can be one of the keys to controlling your sugar levels.
 
Hi Liz,

Yep a real pain in the ass but one we have to live with.

Luckily we are not alone and this is a superb forum to learn and improve your life from with great tips and info...

Good luck
 
Hi Liz and welcome to the forum :) Acceptance comes after a while. For me it's gone even further, as I have also heard from other people. It has helped me and them to live in a healthier way and for me, I am pleased to have found this forum and friends too. To help you, here is the information which we give to new members and I think you will find this helpful. Ask all the questions you like and someone will have an answer for you.

BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEW MEMBERS


Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you’ll find well over 30,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.
There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates

Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

Another option is to replace ‘white carbohydrates’ (such as white bread, white rice, white flour etc) with whole grain varieties. The idea behind having whole grain varieties is that the carbohydrates get broken down slower than the white varieties –and these are said to have a lower glycaemic index.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/food/diabetes ... rains.html

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips
The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to blood glucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
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Please sign our e-petition for free testing for all type 2's; here's the link:
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/petition/

Do get your friends and colleagues to sign as well.
 
Hi Liz, Yep a real Game changer this Diabetes thing, You have to basically change your mindset from the Old you, eating what you like when you like. To watching everything you eat all the time. and I felt like I had been given a prison sentence with no time off for good behaviour, but after a while you will start adjusting and learning, food does not seem my Enemy now, but just the food that is Bad for me. I am exercising every day and feel the benefits to my Body, that stiff back is going the fatigue is getting less, the energy I once had is slowly returning. I sleep better now, I tend not to be hungry all the time and don't get those cravings for sugar fix. So stick with the new Game plan and you will reap the rewards it don't take long. Think of it more as a kick up the Ass, that may well give you a better life.
 
Hi Mendip and welcome! Some good advice from Daisy there, so do follow it.
You said you went straight to the Newcastle diet which lasted a week.
That's a big jump from a sack of M&M's every day! You DO need to reduce the starchy carbs though. Why not cut your carbs in half, which is about 125 grams a day for a woman, leaving out the bad starchy ones like bread, pastry, white rice, pasta, all sugars and boiled/mashed/jacket old potatos. You can replace them with a little Basmati rice, wholewheat pasta, a few new boiled potatos and lots of other veg, avoiding parsnips and too much sweetcorn, and a slice now and again of wholegrain brown bread (although lots of us eat Burgen soya and linseed) You can of course eat lots of meat, fish and dairy products. Watch the fruit; bananas are not good for most of us, the berries like strawberries and raspberries etc are about the best.
It won't be such a jump, and may be easier to stick to as a diet.
Test 2 hours after each meal for a while, and if you get more than 7.8, cut out some of the carbs in that meal next time you have it.
You can get a meter called codefree with cheap strips on the internet if the doc won't give you one.
Good luck!
 
Welcome Mendip, congratulations on overcoming the first big obstacle........acceptance :clap:
 
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