But will it make up for my feelings? Being friends is good for both however I will still "love" her even though we are friends so I will still struggle and feel a little bitter. I understand that patience and time are the keys. Falling in love in this age is hazardous and unnecessary, especially for someone like me who cant even manage to do some changes in my life.
I dont find it very hard to ask her out but rejecting is a possibility which I have to to be aware of. Despite everything, talking with girls is very uncomfortable for me. Then imagine if I had to talk with my crush. She loves rock music but I find it disturbing. Im keen on politics, society and religious cases(although I study maths and physics a lot).
Being friends is the startThe 'friendzone' is a silly term, in my opinion. Most girls prefer to get to know someone as a friend first. That does not mean that person will 'only' be a friend forever. Often being friends is the first step before a relationship.
Patient? Nah, it's confidence...Your wife must be very patient @Jaylee : D I'd have escorted that 'friend' to the door promptly!
Ive been doing it already, she is my classmate so we see each other everydayPerhaps you're just shy @Michik
Start slowly by just saying Hello, perhaps. You don't have to go up to her and ask her out all in one go. Say Hi, smile at her to,start with. Then if that goes ok, you can think about saying more
Ive been doing it already, she is my classmate so we see each other everyday
Ya I have a similar problemA week has nearly passed and I still havent done anything with this case. Ive got great opportunities to talk with her but no, I didnt did that. There is something blocking me completely or as I said, I need to become more mature. In the company of friends Its easy to talk but I cant ask her out
But she might consider it as friendly relationship so I will end up in so-called "friendzone". I have a fear of being rejected. I dont know how she reacts if I ask her out. I have done no progress since I fell in love. Thats almost 3 months. I wish I could not fall in love. One day I tried to forget but the other day I saw her again in school and my emotion got stronger.
Maybe ask one of your friends to ask her if she likes you
Even better if you have a mutual friendOr ask one of her friends to ask her if she's interested
Or ask one of her friends to ask her if she's interested
So next week has passed and I think I did way better than previous time. Ive started talking to her, of course in a friendly way but still its a little progress. Its really easy to conversate with her, even though we talk about school, habits or hobbys, I see that she is very kind and outgoing. I havent reached my goal which is meeting with her but I feel a lot better and relief. I realised there is no other way to know her better but speaking to her. 3 days left from our christmas holidays so we wont be meeting by this period. But we will stay in touch via social media and then we will see what the next year will bring to us. Im really happyand a bit proud of myself for overcoming myfears
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