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At 53 do I still cut it as the younger generation?
Absolutely.....................just
At 53 do I still cut it as the younger generation?
My BF appears to have limited interest in my diabetes. However, he was incredibly supportive when I had a serious hypo so I know he cares ... he just doesn't always think about the effects of eating lots of carbs or anything just before I go to bed.
On thing that helped was making it a bit of a game ... guess how many carbs in this meal. Certainly made him more aware and gave him something to do which made him feel useful.
@Snapsy I actually sent my BF your input on the first page of that link a few weeks ago. Explaining it was a pretty good description to how I feel and go through, I think he started it put said it was getting too complicated.... my response was "welcome to my life!"Hi @**shell** , sending a hug your way.
The fabulous @himtoo started the thread I've linked to below - it's well worth a read for both you and your boyfriend, if you're trying to get across to him all the things you have to be dealing with day in day out.
Accompanying cuppa recommended!
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/forum/threads/explaining-what-its-really-like-to-live-with-type-1.103794/
I cannot complain though as I've asked her to marry me.
I think I am going to have to just chip away at him.
Hi @shell,Hiya
I have deleted several drafts of this thread because they are a little whiny.
So here is the simplified version...
Anyone else struggle with disinterested (probably a bit too strong a word) partners? Or anyone have any tips that can help me try and drip feed him info?
He loves me and he understands to an extent but I don't feel he really truly understands the seriousness of the condition or how much time and energy I have to put into it.
Thanks Shell
xoxox
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Hiya
I have deleted several drafts of this thread because they are a little whiny.
So here is the simplified version...
Anyone else struggle with disinterested (probably a bit too strong a word) partners? Or anyone have any tips that can help me try and drip feed him info?
He loves me and he understands to an extent but I don't feel he really truly understands the seriousness of the condition or how much time and energy I have to put into it.
Thanks Shell
xoxox
Sent from my SM-G920F using Diabetes.co.uk Forum mobile app
@Jaylee nailed it ... the way many guys would approach it but there when needed@Jaylee I really like your perspective on things, I think it's very easy to view something with negative eyes especially when it comes down to diabetes.
Thank you. X
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