I totally agree with you... And I understand that I will have alot of complications later on... After talking to this Doctor, it's just I lost hope... If you know what I mean? I can't even picture now starting a family because I'm going to be an inconvenience to my partner and also have no idea if I'm going to be around to see my kids grow up. There are alot of worse medical conditions out there... But this now feels like the death sentence for me.
Callen Naidoo
Thank you so much for sharing this with me... I totally agree with you... After speaking to you, I have a more positive and optimistic approach to lifeCallen
Some Medical people can scare the cra pout of you to try n get you to always take control of your diabetes. Some of them play it down....
Diabetes is not so bad considering odometer other ailments, but you are young and I can remember clearly how I felt, but there wasn't google n internet back then so we pretty much were alone with our thoughts and worries. You certainly never questioned a Doctor, absolutely forbidden!,
So the present time with you..... It is a huge shock to be diagnosed with any diabetes..I cried myself to sleep every night for 6 weeks when I was diagnosed... Still got up and did my management job, but it was hard to be normal initially.
You will get more accepting as your control levels become balanced and you know what foods upset them. You can have basically any food as a type 1 when you know how to adjust bolus's etc... But you will need to try and balance the qtyof desserts, sweets n treats that many non diabetics seem to have on a constant basis.
Complication wise, life is in general what you make it... If you want to minimise complications then that's down to you to find ways to enjoy foods that you like to keep within the target ranges with your levels.
Believe me, I eat minimal during most of year, but December is MY month. I eat every Christmas food there is. Nothing's off limits!! I am lucky that I have a pump so can whack through much higher levels of basal rates for 24 hours a day... Literally until 2nd Jan. The rest of year except my birthday, I have just what I want, but just never want much!!
I'm glad you've got appointments coming up...let us know how you get on..
As for having a family etc... You can do the same as anyone else... A lot of people have fertility problems, miscarriages for women, etc and low sperm counts etc.... That's just part of our human genes nowadays for on diabetics too.
You are lucky that you will always have basic checks of your health made on you...non diabetics don't and can be living with high blood pressure etc and not know it....
You will be fine, be positive...think 'I can do'. I've banned kids that come in to contact with me from saying... "I can't" .. They accept from me that they have to find a way of getting help they need, when they can't do something. Nothing is a can't unless it's illegal... That's how you have to think of your diabetes... It lives with you.... You don't live with it.....make the most of your life Callen. Never have regrets...
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Now it's on 6.5 before meals and about 8ish after meals... I really don't know how the carb counting works to be honest, all my doctor said was if it doesn't go to 5 I need to increase my insulin to 6 more units... I didn't do this however(getting terrible headaches when my sugar is less than 6)What are your levels currently running at Callen?
Are you carb counting at all? Has your doctor discussed this with you?
Would you feel comfortable being able to adjust your own meds, rather than through the doctor. Only reason I ask is that on a long term basis you need to be able to manage increasing or decreasing meds yourself... Longterm though.. I'm not suggesting now.....it's just that it will give you more freedom to be able to eat the foods that you like and want to eat..
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