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<blockquote data-quote="donnellysdogs" data-source="post: 1666254" data-attributes="member: 17713"><p>Been reading this and it concerns me hugely.</p><p></p><p>It seems that there are such negative answers from [USER=441787]@NoKindOfSusie[/USER]</p><p></p><p>I'm to the point now that I am wondering whether poster is in her real life reaching out for sympathy.</p><p></p><p>I relate this to things in my real life that I have noticed recently:</p><p></p><p>With my severely disabled friend, she has two kinds of friends....1)those that have health problems and really, really doing everything to help themselves and see her as enabling them</p><p>2) the second type of friends in her life may have health problems but they are actually trying to get everything she has ie a motorised 6 wheeler and also like to talk about their illnesses constantly and never ask about her health,don't help or offer to do anything for her. Between me and my friend, we actually now call it "compsting for disability" whilst others fight it.</p><p></p><p>It seems to me that reasoning for improving life is getting chucked out the pram from Susie and only misery is an accepted form of commiseration that can be accepted.</p><p></p><p>It is really alarming as life is based around challenges for everything, right from the start. Even childbirth for some. Some are bouncy babes and others struggle for life.</p><p></p><p>Sadly I think that [USER=441787]@NoKindOfSusie[/USER] is unable to rise to challenges around life. Depending upon sympathy perhaps from others in real life and may have a depressive disorder that a GP should be advising on.</p><p></p><p>Only [USER=441787]@NoKindOfSusie[/USER] can style her forthcoming life style, thinking and health ahead.</p><p>No challenges or ways of helping thoughts are being met with anything else but negativity.</p><p></p><p>I would just end this posting with a note, and this note is for all humans, not just diabetics..</p><p>"Smile and the world smiles with you" and smiles are catching... walk down a street today and just smile at one stranger... and that smile has spread.. that person will smile back.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="donnellysdogs, post: 1666254, member: 17713"] Been reading this and it concerns me hugely. It seems that there are such negative answers from [USER=441787]@NoKindOfSusie[/USER] I'm to the point now that I am wondering whether poster is in her real life reaching out for sympathy. I relate this to things in my real life that I have noticed recently: With my severely disabled friend, she has two kinds of friends....1)those that have health problems and really, really doing everything to help themselves and see her as enabling them 2) the second type of friends in her life may have health problems but they are actually trying to get everything she has ie a motorised 6 wheeler and also like to talk about their illnesses constantly and never ask about her health,don't help or offer to do anything for her. Between me and my friend, we actually now call it "compsting for disability" whilst others fight it. It seems to me that reasoning for improving life is getting chucked out the pram from Susie and only misery is an accepted form of commiseration that can be accepted. It is really alarming as life is based around challenges for everything, right from the start. Even childbirth for some. Some are bouncy babes and others struggle for life. Sadly I think that [USER=441787]@NoKindOfSusie[/USER] is unable to rise to challenges around life. Depending upon sympathy perhaps from others in real life and may have a depressive disorder that a GP should be advising on. Only [USER=441787]@NoKindOfSusie[/USER] can style her forthcoming life style, thinking and health ahead. No challenges or ways of helping thoughts are being met with anything else but negativity. I would just end this posting with a note, and this note is for all humans, not just diabetics.. "Smile and the world smiles with you" and smiles are catching... walk down a street today and just smile at one stranger... and that smile has spread.. that person will smile back. [/QUOTE]
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