Thanks, all. And thank you for the encouragement! My next set of blood work isn't until next month, so I feel like I'm just plodding along not really sure I'm doing the right things. I don't have a lot of trust in my diabetic nurse - as soon as I was told this was likely the problem with me, I started researching and had read A LOT of this forum before meeting with her, and the first thing she gives me is a pack saying 'eat starchy carbs' which seemed to go against everything you guys were saying.
I'm glad I made the decision to just crack on with low carb - it is clearly having an effect, and hopefully my next set of blood work will show that with the numbers not just weight loss.
I hadn't considered the lack of salt - that's a really good point that I'll be sure of consider when cooking now. I am definiely eating less processed food. I work on the road a lot, and have spent years relying on fast food or easy meals I can pick up between meetings.
I don't expect my readings to be low every time, I'm comfortable with the very occasional untentional spikes whilst I still get my head around this, and I have already allowed myself a couple of 'meals off' which ended up being no where near the readings I imagined, and I guess that's because I'm approaching it from a different angle. I'm not just eating a higher carb meal without thought, because I want it, but because I already know what my level is, what carbs I've had for the day, what is a reasonable intake and unlikely to cause problems. I don't want this to sound like I'm eating carbs all of the time, I really am not, but when I've been out (had a run of family birthdays!) I've not let myself get stressed out by menus, but instead thought about what to eat prior to those meals out, what to leave on plate, what I can let myself have within reason, etc.
It's a brand new way of thinking for someone who has always been extremely body positive and truly believed people can and should 'do what they want' - I still believe that, but I now have a different set of parameters to work within when applying that to myself. It's a mind shift, I guess, but it's working so far.
It was the morning readings and ongoing way of life that scared me the most, I think. But just interacting with people in the same boat has already lifted my outlook on it.