Hi,
@Spine Wars 2023
I can understand your frustration, as something similar happened to me. Fifteen years ago I lost a lot of weight, 49kg. I had also over a period of 20 years had 6 major abdominal surgeries. I suffered a few complications after the last two surgeries, and a year or two later one of my legs had swelled with pitting oedema. My GP insisted the swelling and asymmetry was due to me losing weight. I queried this . Does somebody lose weight in such an uneven way that one leg becomes almost twice the size of the other?
I asked for a second opinion. Was willing to pay. Amazing how quickly you can get a private consultation. I got my appointment within two days. Strangely I was referred to an orthopaedic surgeon. Who was as bewildered as I was as to the reason for the referral to someone dealing with joint issues, when this was clearly soft tissues. He was also infuriated by the fact that the letter from GP also stated the wrong leg! I joked that I was glad I wasn’t seeing him for amputation. I think there was concern that I would take legal advice about the GP error. I wouldn’t, but it seemed to expedite my NHS investigations with ultrasound, MRI, doppler scans, and an assessment by a vascular surgeon, who diagnosed stage 2 lymphoedema, in leg and abdomen, due to lymph nodes being removed and / or damaged during the previous surgeries.
So I was referred on to the specialist lymphoedema clinic. Where a circular argument with weight management service began. Lymphoedema clinic refused to even see me, because I exceeded the BMI limit. Said I should be referred to weight management service instead. Weight management service had already discharged me as I had lost 49kg, and they believed that a lot of the excess weight was due to the fluid retention from the lymphoedema, which needed treatment. Neither of them would budge.
I was becoming more and more immobile, and very depressed. I needed a wheelchair to get out and about. I didn’t want to be seen, and my social life suffered. No longer went swimming , which I had previously done every day before work.
Finding a practitioner qualified in Manual Lymphatic Drainage was the best thing I could have done. (The organisation Lymphoedema Support Network, has a list of these)
THE LYMPHOEDEMA SUPPORT NETWORK Registered charity No. 1193800 ‘The Lymphoedema Support Network (LSN) is a registered charity and the UK’s national patient supp
The practitioner taught me how to do this very gentle MLD massage myself, and advised on compression aids. She also had information about a consultant service available, at Guys and St Thomas hospital. (This was in 2018, so I am not sure if there have been changes recently.)
I now manage the swellings myself. Using the MLD technique. If I sit for a long time I have to elevate my feet but also get up and move around frequently. I had a compression garment made for the abdominal swelling, by NHS orthotic department. It was far too uncomfortable, so decent lycra underwear suffices. I sometimes do have to use tubigrip under tight bandaging for lower leg and foot. Have to buy shoes for the largest foot, (which is between one and two sizes larger ) and fit spacers inside shoes for the smaller foot. Sensible, lace up shoes. The pretty shoes are a thing of the past, but on a good day I lace them up and get out and walk. I also go to the swimming pool most days. Exercise in the water, and some directed physio help to avoid the excess fluid build up. It was hard going to the pool the first time. I thought people would be unkind. I found the opposite. Also, I would estimate around 80% of people are more hung up by how they look themselves to take much notice of what others look like.
It is vitally important to look after skin. To cleanse and moisturise. I have had cellulitis, after getting a small scratch from a bramble whilst out walking. Essential to get treatment rapidly if it looks red hot and uncomfortable. Another time a midge bite. Very painful, and I fortunately got antibiotics early.
If you are intending to apply for PIP, be aware that it is not the condition, but how the condition affects you that scores points on an assessment. You already will have some info on your medical record with a diagnosis. Especially as you have been seen in the lymphoedema clinic. Ask for a GP, nurse, or other HCP, to clarify this in your records, with specific details of diagnosis, and the difficulties you have, including any treatments. Keep a diary yourself, of what you find difficult, and get anyone else who knows you or lives with you to provide a supporting statement.
There is some useful information about claiming benefits in the BenefitsandWork website, including a self test.
Get the benefits you're entitled to: help with personal independence payment (PIP), universal credit (UC), employment and support allowance (ESA),disability living allowance (DLA). Claims, assessments, reviews, appeals.
www.benefitsandwork.co.uk
Get the benefits you're entitled to: help with personal independence payment (PIP), universal credit (UC), employment and support allowance (ESA),disability living allowance (DLA). Claims, assessments, reviews, appeals.
www.benefitsandwork.co.uk
including a self test.
If necessary, seek help from welfare advice centre or CAB.
Hope this helps.
Best wishes, Pipp.