TorqPenderloin
Well-Known Member
Honestly, those sound like issues managing your work/personal life balance and have nothing to do with diabetes. You'd still have a 3hr commute, you'd still exercise (hopefully), and you'd still probably not enjoy cooking if you didn't have diabetes. Those things only become more important after you have diabetes.
Honestly, my diagnosis has actually helped to improve my work life/personal life balance.
-My fiancé's "Commute" includes a 3.5 hr flight to her office in NYC. Last year, she spent 125-150 days away from home and it takes her half of a day to get to work and half of a day to get home. However, that's a choice we made and we CHOOSE to live where we do. If the commute became a problem we'd move closer.
-We have memberships to three different gyms because of the travel situation (and that's not including the gyms we have at home and at work). It's something we have to do to make things convenient based on her/our schedules.
-When she's home we cook dinner together, go to the gym, and/or exercise together. It's become part of the quality time we spend with one another. Sometimes, I'll go to the gym at 4am because she got home at 1am and is still sleeping. It would be easier for me to go to the gym in the evening, but that would mean we don't get to see each other as much.
I'm not trying to compare my situation to yours, but for me, it's a matter of finding a way to make things work, or making changes when it doesn't work. Honestly, we didn't always do those things together before I was diagnosed. It was much easier to go out to eat or skip the gym. Now that those things are essentially required, we're much more motivated to do them and it's actually made our relationship much stronger.
Honestly, my diagnosis has actually helped to improve my work life/personal life balance.
-My fiancé's "Commute" includes a 3.5 hr flight to her office in NYC. Last year, she spent 125-150 days away from home and it takes her half of a day to get to work and half of a day to get home. However, that's a choice we made and we CHOOSE to live where we do. If the commute became a problem we'd move closer.
-We have memberships to three different gyms because of the travel situation (and that's not including the gyms we have at home and at work). It's something we have to do to make things convenient based on her/our schedules.
-When she's home we cook dinner together, go to the gym, and/or exercise together. It's become part of the quality time we spend with one another. Sometimes, I'll go to the gym at 4am because she got home at 1am and is still sleeping. It would be easier for me to go to the gym in the evening, but that would mean we don't get to see each other as much.
I'm not trying to compare my situation to yours, but for me, it's a matter of finding a way to make things work, or making changes when it doesn't work. Honestly, we didn't always do those things together before I was diagnosed. It was much easier to go out to eat or skip the gym. Now that those things are essentially required, we're much more motivated to do them and it's actually made our relationship much stronger.