... Clearly it's not just me...!!
--- I've had all the above too I think; one friend is a nutritionist and asks me *everytime* I see her; 'tell me why they think you're type 1 again...?" -- and I say 'because my GAD antibodies, which is meant to be below 5, came back at 1,800 higher than my doctor had ever seen -- that's what makes it autoimmune' -- and she without fail goes on to say something along the lines of 'but you did like sweets though didn't you'... She may as well just say she thinks I'm type 2 and be done with it!!
... Quite seriously though I do find myself removing myself from social situations because I'm becoming so sensitive to the continued 'you just haven't tried hard enough to "beat this"' comments... :-/
Last night I had *yet another* frustrating conversation about being diabetic....
Friend (who knows I'm type 1 from previous conversations): when do you get your insulin pump?
Me: 10 days time, should be great!
Friend: how long have you been diabetic?
Me: about two and a half years....
Friend: what caused it?
Me: they don't exactly know - other than it's auto-immune -- so something triggered an autoimmune response which caused my pancreas to conk out
Friend: oh, you're just like another friend I know -- she's diabetic too -- she got it because she went on this crazy health kick where all she ate was fruit -- and the spikes from the fruit caused her to become diabetic.... she's managed it just by cutting back on sugary things though.
Me: sounds like she's type 2?
Friend: yes
Me: I'm type 1
Friend: yea, exactly -- she's the same - but it's crazy cos she was actually trying to be healthy and that's how she got it...
{at this point I zone out -- thinking I don't know how to deal with the endless confusion....}
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This sort of conversation happens to me *at least* once a week - does this happen more because I'm adult who got diagnosed....? Or does this sort of conversation happen to everyone with type 1?
I'm seriously considering wondering whether to lie to people and say I've always had it, cos it doesn't seem to matter how many different ways I explain that cutting out sugar isn't going to cure me, people just don't understand....
no, i think it was bang on! I agree completely with you.Oops - that was probably a bit rantier than I meant it to be
A person in work was getting really annoying talking about my diabetes just like the rest of you, so to shut him up, I just casually mentioned that I'd read that it can be very contagious and that someone had caught diabetes from a diabetic sneezing in front of them. He never bothered me again after that
I hear these every single day too, i'm so glad it's not just me!! I've also had somebody training to be a nurse to tell me i shouldn't take insulin at breakfast time regardless of what i eat and in the middle of having a hypo told me i'd be fine to drive in a minute if i had some juice and i shouldn't be dramatic seriously?!I get this too! So frustrating!
When I was diagnosed in December I got so many comments, some of the most memorable:
- "Oh, you must have had a really bad diet when you were younger - did you have lots of sweets?"
- "How have you got diabetes when you're so active and not overweight, is it because you eat unhealthily?"
- "At least you can just take tablets to control it, it's not too serious and won't affect your life"
- "Oh no, it will be rubbish not being able to have any sugar any more" ... etc ... etc ....
One woman was convinced I had been mis-diagnosed because "only babies get type 1 and only fat people get type 2 ... so how can you have got diabetes?"
These were from intelligent people....in the end I just gave up. Don't think we can be too harsh though - although I wouldn't have been as silly as to make comments such as those above, I have to confess that my knowledge of diabetes was very little pre-diagnosis.
Last night I had *yet another* frustrating conversation about being diabetic....
Friend (who knows I'm type 1 from previous conversations): when do you get your insulin pump?
Me: 10 days time, should be great!
Friend: how long have you been diabetic?
Me: about two and a half years....
Friend: what caused it?
Me: they don't exactly know - other than it's auto-immune -- so something triggered an autoimmune response which caused my pancreas to conk out
Friend: oh, you're just like another friend I know -- she's diabetic too -- she got it because she went on this crazy health kick where all she ate was fruit -- and the spikes from the fruit caused her to become diabetic.... she's managed it just by cutting back on sugary things though.
Me: sounds like she's type 2?
Friend: yes
Me: I'm type 1
Friend: yea, exactly -- she's the same - but it's crazy cos she was actually trying to be healthy and that's how she got it...
{at this point I zone out -- thinking I don't know how to deal with the endless confusion....}
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This sort of conversation happens to me *at least* once a week - does this happen more because I'm adult who got diagnosed....? Or does this sort of conversation happen to everyone with type 1?
I'm seriously considering wondering whether to lie to people and say I've always had it, cos it doesn't seem to matter how many different ways I explain that cutting out sugar isn't going to cure me, people just don't understand....
We are just sooooo selfish. Lol!I've even had someone say to me it's not a very serious problem cos they have heared some people have had it for ages and not even realised so we are just causing a fuss taking medication we don't really need.
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