Erectile Dysfuction

[FloppyMan]

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Hello everyone, first post and it's a bit of a doozy. So you know how diabetes gives you Erectile Dysfunction, what do you do when your wife doesn't care and is actually happy about it?
Background: I have type 2 with pills, high blood pressure, asthma, anxiety and a crippled left ankle leaving me in chronic pain. My wife has endometrieosis and since the birth of our twins 18 years ago, we have not had penetrative sex. We tried alternatives but the truth is my wife never wants to have sex again due to it being painful and she doesn't like doing anything else. When I developed ED possibly due to diabetes and the antidepressants I'm on, following the doctors advice I asked her to help me with condition, she agreed but not before I saw a flash of revulsion and disgust cross her face - this totally threw me and I've not been able to do anything since. Doc has prescribed Viagra and it just doesn't work at all becuase I know she doesn't want to do anything.
So does anyone have the same sort of probem, married for nearly 30 years but sleeping in separate bedrooms, she asks me for cuddles at night but I just can't because I know that will be all there is. I love my wife and children but do I really have to be a solitary eunuch in my own cell in my own house

 

[MissMuffett]

Hi if your wife is willing I would thoroughly recommend Relate counselling (Used to be marriage guidance) My husband and I were on the verge of separation and we decided to give it a try. The conversations in the sessions were very painful and dragged up feelings and discussions we had found difficult to have between ourselves but with the counsellors guidance got us talking about issues we were skirting round. It made us much happier and able to understand and talk outside the sessions and continue a happier married life.

 

[Mana17]

<sorry, appear to have posted this in the wrong area before>
Hello everyone, first post and it's a bit of a doozy. So you know how diabetes gives you Erectile Dysfunction, what do you do when your wife doesn't care and is actually happy about it?
Background: I have type 2 with pills, high blood pressure, asthma, anxiety and a crippled left ankle leaving me in chronic pain. My wife has endometrieosis and since the birth of our twins 18 years ago, we have not had penetrative sex. We tried alternatives but the truth is my wife never wants to have sex again due to it being painful and she doesn't like doing anything else. When I developed ED possibly due to diabetes and the antidepressants I'm on, following the doctors advice I asked her to help me with condition, she agreed but not before I saw a flash of revulsion and disgust cross her face - this totally threw me and I've not been able to do anything since. Doc has prescribed Viagra and it just doesn't work at all becuase I know she doesn't want to do anything.
So does anyone have the same sort of probem, married for nearly 30 years but sleeping in separate bedrooms, she asks me for cuddles at night but I just can't because I know that will be all there is. I love my wife and children but do I really have to be a solitary eunuch in my own cell in my own house

Hey mate do a fast with minerals,if you just cant stand the hunger eat fat,buy a rebounder or vibration plate you need to work the muscles to fatigue
if you watch porn and ejac give it up till your ed comes back on track.and have herb but they are the icing on the cake.

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