Oh, and i've noticed there is often a recurring theme on the forum. Women who have struggled with weight, hormonal issues and lifetime battles against their own bodies propensity to gain, have also probably tried many diets and subjected their body to various different low calorie eating.
I think (just my experience/observation) that we end up with
diet resistance, where hormones and low calorie diet-abuse, where we have trained our bodies to adjust
to low calories/starvation.
Men have a different set of hormones, more muscle, and are very unlikely to have yoyo dieted, starved and rebound gained in the same way.
So I don't expect men to be able to speak with knowledge, experience or understanding, about the things that cause and affect
my weight - or that of many of the women on this forum.
Of course, I also envy those men. If my life really were as simple as 'calories in - calories out', and 'eat less-move more', then i would have been slim and fit since the 80s.
(And I realise that there
are men out there who have female-pattern weight issues - yoyo, plateauing, rapid regain, no loss with severe calorie reduction, massive water retention, etc. I bet it is
your hormones, too - and I sympathise with you even more! You probably get even less patience, understanding and support than we women

)