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123Jo123

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I Was diagnosed in July and I am struggling to get my head around this - I feel like my life is over - that I am going to get all of these horrible complications and if I don't test my blood all the time my levels are going to go very high. Normally I am a very practical person but I can't seem to control myself :(
 
Hello Jo.

What you're experiencing is normal. It does pass and then from time to time it comes back again and we feel fed up and come on here and others prop us back up and send us on our way again.

Complications happen as a result of poor control, nothing else and if caught early enough then the effects can be held or even reversed. You are right to be scared about damage to your feet or eyes, because it's this fear that motivates you to make the changes you need to, but these complications are not inevitable in any way.

You need to control your levels. There are several ways of doing this, ranging from balancing with medication, portion control and low carbing. There's lots of info on this forum and the more you read and the more you ask the easier it becomes. I've now been here 9 months but most of us have been where you are.

The most important thing is not that you are diabetic, but that you now know you are and can deal with it. If you take heed now then your health will improve not deteriorate. Most of us are much happier and healthier than pre-diagnosis. So chin up - your life isn't over. Get involved in the conversations and learn as much as you can.

I expect Daisy will be along in a minute with some sensible advice. Until then - good luck.

Swim
 
Hi, welcome to the Forum. I am a relative newbie (Type 2) but have found this forum essential reading. There is lots of very useful advice, and tons of support. You are in the right place. You don't say whether you are type 1, 1.5 or 2, weight, current health, reasons that led to diagnosis. Say a little bit about yourself and someone with similar experience will come along and share their strategies. Have a look at my signature. All the best, Mary.
 
Hi Jo
You are not alone with your feelings. I was also diagnosed type 2 in July
and are sharing the same feelings as you. I seem to be going through a greiving
process of my 'old' life dissappearing this forum has some fantastic information and support
within it which has certainly been helping me. (To be honest this is the first day I have taken
a deep breath and started to post). There does feel like a loss of control especially when
talking to the health professionals who seem to have the same faulty script.

We will get through this (wow I've started to be positive)
 
swimmer2 said:
I expect Daisy will be along in a minute with some sensible advice. Until then - good luck.

Swim

Hi Jo and welcome to the forum :)

Here is the information that Swim is referring to. Ask all the questions you like and someone will help you.


BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEWLY DIAGNOSED DIABETICS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you’ll find well over 30,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.
There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates

Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

Another option is to replace ‘white carbohydrates’ (such as white bread, white rice, white flour etc) with whole grain varieties. The idea behind having whole grain varieties is that the carbohydrates get broken down slower than the white varieties –and these are said to have a lower glycaemic index.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/food/diabetes ... rains.html

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips
The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to blood glucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
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Please sign our e-petition for free testing for all type 2's; here's the link:
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/petition/

Do get your friends and colleagues to sign as well.
 
Morning Jo
As you will of guessed by now, we who are replying to you, as they say have been there, done that, and got the "T" shirt. We all have bad days but please keep smiling, things will get better. It's close on 3 years since I was first diagnosed and now am back at work, back to watching live football (my pet hobby) going on holidays etc, and a couple of years ago I would never have believed that. I am certainly no doctor so I carn't give any medical advice, all I can ask you to do is keep smiling, it does work whatever your on.
YOU WILL GET BETTER !
Ginner
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Hello jo, I know just how you feel, I found out in late April and still coming to terms with it. I feel angry at the condition and I am finding that if I turn that anger into a feeling of not letting this get the better of me i feel better. Might be worth a try
 
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