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Wow your so pretty...... Thanks for the advice but what turns a girl off
 
I cant say what turns a girl off or on - we're all different and see different attributes in different people.

One thing I always looked for in a man was a good sense of humour - if he could keep me laughing through the dark days of my mental health then he was in my list of good people.

I also find having some similar interests helps too. eg hubby and I both like similar music although not all the same as then it would be boring. He likes Pink Floyd (I cant stand them) whereas I like things like Billy Idol and he's not too keen. Also we both like reading although again it is slightly different genres. We do mention books we have read we think the other might like etc. And we both like history (although I'm much more inclined than he is) so we can be found looking around historic houses in the summer.

If you can get over your hurdle of not speaking to girls and finding out interests of girls that move in your circle of people your confidence will grow and who knows what the future holds.
 
Stay single johnniey as life is so much simpler. You find you have more money to spend on yourself. You can make plans to do what you want without having to consider another persons needs. No PMT situations to deal with each month. No arguments followed by long silences. You want someone who is pleased to see you when you get home? Get a dog. They don't care if you come in late after a heavy session down the pub. A dog will settle for a pat on the head and a dog biscuit and will not expect you to buy the latest kitchen gadget or buy them a new frock. Single, sane and solvent is the way to go.
 
Duncan57 said:
Stay single johnniey as life is so much simpler. You find you have more money to spend on yourself. You can make plans to do what you want without having to consider another persons needs. No PMT situations to deal with each month. No arguments followed by long silences. You want someone who is pleased to see you when you get home? Get a dog. They don't care if you come in late after a heavy session down the pub. A dog will settle for a pat on the head and a dog biscuit and will not expect you to buy the latest kitchen gadget or buy them a new frock. Single, sane and solvent is the way to go.
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OMG
You must have had a bad experience
I love my special lady
 
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