Don't put yourself under too much pressure to become pregnant - long story short, after numorus early stage loses, years of trying everything (!) and running around the IVF treatment mill we eventually gave up trying, a few months later we thought we'd give IVF 1 more last ditch effort, back seeing our consultant and discussing things he said to my wife hop up on the bed and lets do a quick ultrasound, and thats when we saw our daughters heart beat for the first time - she'll be 9 later this month.