If you are talking about paying privately for it, it's permissible but rather pointless since it isn't going to change much without a reason. The variability on an HbA1C test is said to be around 6%, so it is more accurate than a single finger-prick test, but less useful than a whole series of finger-prick tests.
Because of the 8 -12 weeks lifespan of red blood cells, HbA1C tests are useless for determining the effect on us of different meals, but with 2 finger-prick tests (before and 2hrs after the meal) we get personalised and immediate notification if our latest meal was good for our Blood Glucose control or if it was bad for it.
I would agree with your nurse IF you were just taking RANDOM finger pricks, But for example some factors can cause diabetics to go both quite high and fairly low during the same day much less a whole month! So their HbA1C might look perfect when the truth was that the Blood Glucose was all over the place!