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Solitaire71

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Hello everyone. Well, where do I start? I'm type 1 diabetic, and the insulin I take is Novorapid (at breakfast, lunch and dinner) and levemir (with breakfast and at night), so that's my 5 a day (pun semi-intended). I was diagnosed when I was 18 months old, and I'm 18 now, so I've had this for nearly 17 years now

Until about the age of 14 or 15, my control was pretty much under my parents', especially my mum's jurisdiction. They did an excellent job, and I can't thank them more for it. Then I took over, and yes, the **** really hit the fan. I knew the basic facts about diabetes, granted, but because a lot of things were up to my parents, it was like I never knew how things worked properly. So, when things went wrong, I covered it up, always telling myself that at some point I would sort it out but that point never came. I got used to dealing with highs and lows when they came, but the long term was never planned. I could adjust my insulin doses in general and good success. I never had severe highs or severe lows where I couldn't help myself, but I wasn't doing anywhere near as much as I should have been

Some time, I summoned the courage to tell my parents that I had effectively been lying to everyone about my blood sugar results, making them not too perfect, but not too bad (intelligence at its worst!). So, I vowed to stop that. Unfortunately I didn't stop it, and for about another 2 years I lost my grasp on it. Then, this summer just gone, I was at a local doctor's with my father since we both had appointments about other issues. When we got back home, we found my mother sitting at the computer, going through my blood meter, and looking at my results in a mix of fear, disappointment and honest suprise. At this point, my parents confronted me, and since I had scared myself over the 2 years by looking up the health risks if you go wrong, I railed against my father, and shouted at him (something I've never done). He tried to comfort me, but I turned away and collapsed. Then we all sat down and talked about things

My mother got me a textbook on diabetes, "Type 1 diabetes: How to become an expert on your own diabetes by Dr Ragnar Hanas" (some of you guys might recognise it, it's a brilliant book for any diabetic or relative of one at any stage of their diabetes). I effectively went back to square 1, and I was like a newly diagnosed diabetic, because up to this point it was just how my life had always been. Now, I was accepting it, and getting to grips with it. I started learning why things happened, and the things that used to frustrate me do so less now because I understand them. I am still learning, and still going, but the experiences I've had and the things my parents went through treating my diabetes as a child are what will motivate me to become better at controlling this

So, here I am today, adjusting my insulin doses again to try and discover the right routine, each time giving it a week to see what patterns develop. I hope one day I will be able to help others as much as others have helped me :)
 
Hi Solitaire.
Welcome to the forum. Have a good look around and if you have any questions just ask. There is always someone with an answer. Look forward to seeing posts from you about your own experiences which I am sure will be of benefit to our members young and old alike.
 
Hi and welcome to the site. I am not myself diabetic, but I have 2 children ages 4 & 6 who are. I manage their condition just like your parents did for you and control their diabetes as best I can. I do worry about the teenage years, when they get to that age that they will take over the monitoring of their condition and I won't be in charge anymore. I am pleased that you have joined this site as it proves not only your commitment to this condition but also to your parents. I'm sure your parents put a lot of effort in to control your diabetes (especially when you were younger) and I'm sure they will be so very proud of you if you can take on this condition and manage it as successfuly as they did. I wish you all the best. Leggott
 
Hi welcome to the forum, I have a Son age 11 it worries me how he will manage his diabetes when he,s older, I,m trying to explain things to him but we,re still in early stages and kind of learning together. I hope you get your doses and bs sorted out and I,m sure you will be a lot of help to other on here.

good luck and well done you sound sensible for an 18yr old
 
Hi Solitaire,
From what I've read you aren't the first to make up your results and you won't be the last. I agree about the book you have, I developed Type 1 an older age and the title put me off initially but I agree it's an excellent book.
I'm sure your experiences will be helpful to others, moving from childhood to adulthood isn't easy for anyone and coping with diabetes must make it extra difficult.
 
Thank you guys for such a warm welcome :)

I hope to be useful here, and I will post when I can. To Shazza and leggott, all you guys can do is do the best you can, and when your children get to the stage where they are under complete control, just give them support as you have been doing, don't pressure them into too much, and don't fear if at first they don't talk to you about things. Most importantly, do not be disappointed if they rebel against it like I did, because it's a natural reaction to do so. I'm sure you won't have problems when the stage comes, but if there are any worries, there will always be help for you and your children :)

Thank you to the others and your kind words too, I appreciate it. Hope to be here a long time
 
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