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Help! I have so much weight to lose

Oh I so hope you manage it. My bloods are due in November so I need to stay focussed at least until then.
 

This is what is working for me, so far.
I have been diagnosed pre-diabetic for nearly two years. Since December 2016 I have been on a LCHF diet. It worked well for six months and I lost nearly two stone but then my weight leveled off at around 20 1/2 stone and I could not shift it.. My Hba1c level also increased to 47 by December 2017.
Gradually, I have been reducing what I eat. And since June 2018 I have been weighing all food which contain any carbs to the gram and calculating the carb content to 0.1 g. This is important as the carbs in healthy green vegetables add up surprisingly quickly. I'm aiming to average between 50 - 70 g carbs per day. Within this limit I eat what I like. I do not worry about calories, but rather eat extra fat for energy and to prevent hunger. I have also been measuring my blood glucose before and after meals to monitor the effect of different foods on me.
The results are impressive for me: my weight is now just above 19 stones; my blood pressure, with medication, is the best it has been for over 20 years; my blood sugars are not normal, but usually below 6 mmol/l before and 8 mmol/l after meals. If my weight plateaus I cut down further on carbs to lose a bit more. If hungry, I eat a piece of cheese.
I cannot tolerate much exercise as I have two leaking heart valves. Also atrial fibrillation which is well controlled with medication. Cooking and light housework are my limit. If my husband drives me to the supermarket I can just about push the trolley round to get the food, but am exhausted by the till queue so I leave that part to him.
If I can plod on, losing around a pound a week for a couple more years, I hope then to be able to stabilise my weight and keep my blood sugars near to normal in the long term.
You are different and I know what is working for me may not work for you. I hope you meet your own targets successfully however long it takes.
 
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Well done @zand! You are an encouragement to all who have a ways to go to get where we are once more "happy" with who is looking back at us from the mirror!! I imagine you and all the others posting on this thread have discovered, like myself in my journey, that the battle is real and sometimes we win and sometimes we appear to lose.....but, the key is to pick oneself up and continue on, doing what works best for us, looking for the positives and celebrating them - like I can see my collar bones now - and telling ourselves that the negatives are areas that perhaps need a bit more attention or are not worth a second thought....and get on with living the best life we can. Continued success on all our journeys ! Blessings/L
 
What a lovely post. We aren't that different! I hope what is working for you continues to do so and well done on your progress so far.

Yes I aimed for 50-70g carbs per day for a few years too. It's just recently I have felt the urge to really have a go at losing more and now aim for 20-30g a day. I also usually just have one meal a day in a bid to try to give my pancreas a rest. I won't stay at this low carb level for ever, but am working hard at it while I am here.

Yes you are right to keep on plodding on with what is working. I too like a lump of cheese if I still feel hungry. I am lucky in that I can tolerate more exercise now that my AF has been fixed.

Well done on what you have achieved already
 
Hmmm stability...can't say I am the most stable person around ( in any way)...not sure I even know what stability is

You have some of the same problems as me, but also some extra ones too. I really feel for you and hope that the surgery will help you even more than you dare to hope. ((((hugs))))
 
Only just caught up with this @zand . Just want to add that I am so pleased you are starting to see results for all the effort you have put in over such a long time. Well done for not giving up, and I hope your success will continue.
 

Congratulations on this achievement!

I understand as I'm currently in the morbidly obese category myself and hoping to transition out of it to a lower category of obesity myself.
 

Hi @zand only just seen this. Congratulations - so pleased for you.
 
@zand well done on your progress. I know it’s been a struggle but you’re getting there slowly but surely.
 
A quick update to remind myself that I am still fighting.

Recent stresses have caused my heart to go into AFib again. I am taking a magnesium supplement to hopefully rectify this.

Back in June I was diagnosed with Lyme Disease. This seemed to change my taste for a while and I craved fruit - consequently my weightloss has stalled again. My HbA1c is the highest it has been since diagnosis 8 years ago (51). The Lyme Disease appears to have been cured now as my taste has returned to normal and I am no longer extremely fatigued.
 

Really pleased to read about the LD, it can be really difficult to clear.
Sorry to read about the AFib, wish you well on this Zand.
 
@zand I suffer with severe palpitations from any coffee, sugar free drinks or chocolate (even 90% ones).
My IBS has had a great period of remission but I get frightening surprises. Which feel so painful but I think heightened with trapped wind from my op. Luckily though very few attacks.
Food prepared without me seems to be agitantes and therefore a surprise.
Basic food seems to help my system the best but it gets soooooo boring.
Ive aways had the love for variety.
I'm wishing you and your family a Merry Christmas.
2020 will be a good year for us both. Loads will be accumplished. You'll see.
 
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@zand I forgot to mention that I've returned to taking Amitripyline before bed. It relaxes me so I sleep off and no longer prone to insomniac traits. My lack of sleep would hv led to a heart attack so I now request refills monthly. Once I took an excellent pharmacist's advice on bringing time of taking Amitripyline forward to 6pm I lost that drugged up feeling waking up kids for school run. It's a huge help. I only get 25mg prescribed as it enough to solve a few problems. Leaflet states excellent for Fibromyalgia. Of which I'm not diagnosed but taking same meds anyway.
Thursday and Saturday I felt I'd been in a car crash. Pain everywhere. Bgs not in high levels so I'm taking enough insulin. Painkillers only helped a tiny bit but that's Xmas shopping for you. I'm forever thankful for your support. Myself and my family send you loads of good fortune.... forever. Thank you. Hoping you are getting much better health results and a great Christmas to match.
 
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