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sarahv

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Hi everyone. I'm new to this site, i'm not diabetic myself but my partner is. I've come on here to hopefully gain some answers/support. My partner was only diagnosed with type 2 diabetes (although he injects insulin instead of taking the tablets) last august (2010) he seemed to be controlling it at first but now his sugars are up all of the time and he feels the same as before he was diagnosed. He's very stubborn and keeps saying he's giving up with it all becuase the insulin is not working, i've tried to talk to him about it but he never wants to discuss it. Its hard for me to understand what he must be going through so i'm looking to find ways that i can help him through people who have been in the position we are in at the moment. Thankyou for any help or advice its much appreciated.
Sarah
 
Hi Sarah and welcome to the forum :) To help you to help your partner, here is some basic information written by the Forum Monitors for new members. When you have read this ask as many questions as you like.

Here is the advice that Ken and I, as Forum Monitors, usually give to newly diagnosed Diabetics. We hope that these few ideas gained through experience help you to gain control and give you some understanding of Diabetes. This forum doesn't always follow the recommended dietary advice, you have to work out what works for you as we are all different.

It's not just 'sugars' you need to avoid, diabetes is an inability to process glucose properly. Carbohydrate converts, in the body, to glucose. So it makes sense to reduce the amount of carbohydrate that you eat which includes sugars.

For more information on CARBOHYDRATE see here:

viewtopic.php?f=3&t=20306

This is NOT a low carb diet suggestion, just a reduction in your intake of carbohydrate. You have to decide yourself how much of a reduction will keep your blood glucose levels in control.

The main carbs to avoid OR reduce are the complex or starchy carbohydrates such as bread, potatoes, pasta, rice, starchy root veg and also any flour based products. The starchy carbs all convert 100% to glucose in the body and raise the blood sugar levels significantly.

If you are on Insulin you may find that reducing the carb intake also means that you can reduce your dose of insulin. This can help you to keep weight gain down as Insulin tends to make you put on weight and eventually cause insulin resistance. This should be done slowly so as not to cause hypos.

The way to find out how different foods affect you is to do regular daily testing and keep a food diary for a couple of weeks. If you test just before eating, then two hours after eating, you will see the effect of certain foods on your blood glucose levels. Some foods, which are slow acting carbohydrates, are absorbed more slowly so you may need to test three or even four hours later to see the effect that these have on your blood glucose levels.

Buy yourself a carb counter book (you can get these on-line) and you will be able to work out how much carbs you are eating, when you test, the reading two hours after should be roughly the same as the before eating reading, if it is then that meal was fine, if it isn’t then you need to check what you have eaten and think about reducing the portion size of carbs.

When you are buying products check the total carbohydrate content, this includes the sugar content. Do not just go by the amount of sugar on the packaging as this is misleading to a diabetic.


As for a tester, try asking the nurse/doctor and explain that you want to be proactive in managing your own diabetes and therefore need to test so that you can see just how foods affect your blood sugar levels. Hopefully this will work ! Sometimes they are not keen to give Type 2’s the strips on prescription, (in the UK) but you can but try!!

For TIPS FOR STRIPS see here:

viewtopic.php?f=20&t=19002#p173253

If you are an Insulin user in theory you should have no problem getting test strips.

The latest 2011 NICE guidelines for Bg levels are as follows:
Fasting (waking and before meals).......between 4 - 7 mmol/l...(Type 1 & 2)
2 hrs after meals........................no more than 8.5 mmol/l.....( Type 2)

2hrs after meals......................... no more than 9 mmol/l ......(Type 1)

If you are able to keep the post meal numbers lower, so much the better.

It also helps if you can do at least 30 minutes moderate exercise a day, it can be split into 10 min sessions to start with. It doesn't have to be strenuous.

The above is just general advice and it is recommended that you discuss with your HCP before making any changes. You can also ask questions on the forum on anything that is not clear.

Finally a few QUESTIONS TO ASK AT DIABETES CLINIC.

viewtopic.php?f=20&t=17091



Sue/Ken.
 
Hi
If he is taking insulin by injection, he must be able to change the qty of inulin that he is injecting inaccordance to how is body is using it, and of course what food he is eating.

Few questions:

Does your partner know about carbohydrates and foods affecting the BG levels?

Does your partner alter the amount of insulin he gives himself?

What was his last hba1c blood test results?

Does he ever go hypo?

When you say his levels are raised-what as an average are they running at on a daily basis at the moment? How often is he testing?

It is great that you are taking such an interest in trying to help him with his diabetes. Diabetics need good support to keep them on track sometimes. Not somebody, that is going to say 'you can't eat that', but someone that understands and can help with making correct food choices to keep at home, for packed lunches etc. You have certainly come to the right place, if you browse some of the postings by other members will see that you certainly aren't the first person to be concerned about how their partner is handling their health with diabetes. You are doing exactly the right thing by asking for advice. Welcome to the forum...great place....

TBH I suspect that he isn't matching his food intake to the injections and his daily activities.
 
Hi Sarah

Welcome, my partner is also diabetic (Type 1) and I also joined to find helpful tips and advice that I could pass onto him. It's the best thing ever as we have got hbc1 down from 9.1 to 6.6 since November and that's just from information found on this forum!

Hope you find it as useful as we have.

Sarah x
 
Gosh that is fantastic Sarah....well done for both your partner and for you for the support!!!!
Good support is fantastic in the world of diabetes. Great support from the forum, but otherwise it can be a pretty lonely world we live in without the help from family and friends.....they can make all the difference.
 
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