Hi Tracy,
Yes, I think our children are amazing! My little girl hasn't complained once about the fingerpricks and injections. She just seems to accept it. She thinks it's pretty interesting, counting carbs, choosing injection sites, helping to plan meals etc. She will try and predict her blood sugar levels, we'll make a little game out of it - who's closest to guessing correctly. I think it really helps to involve her and explain things. Re. books...I got a copy of Dr. Rangar Hanas' book 'Type 1 Diabetes'. If you haven't ordered it already, I can highly recommend it. It's very detailed and I've found it extremely useful. Our DSN recommended it to me. It's a bit pricey but you may be able to pick up a second hand copy on Ebay. I also ordered a low Glycemic Index book, to help me plan her meals better. I already have the carbs and cals book (and app) which has proved very useful.
I think it's pretty normal to feel overwhelmed sometimes, it's such a shock and there are so many adjustments to make. Not to mention all the worrying. We just need to remember that while our children obviously come first, we have to look after ourselves too. Anyway, I use that excuse when I want a lazy hour in front of the telly!
Take care. If you ever need a chat I am happy for you to PM me. Not that I claim to have any answers (I am such a newbie still, though learning fast!) but it's reassuring to know we're not alone.