queenbee, since I reduced my blood sugar I have realised a lot of the niggly little things I put down to unacceptable levels of stress and poor sleeping habits were most probably diabetes symptoms.
Since I reduced my carbs considerably (no bread, potatoes, rice or pasta) and my BG has fallen I don't get so many headaches and I'm not so tired, even though my sleeping habits are still poor and stress is still a regular feature.
So, if you are having lots of niggly little things, like headaches or occasional bouts of cystitis or slow to heal wounds it could be that the blood sugar is creeping up again. I think a better question would be how can you tell its getting better - if you take responsibility for making improvements, and you clearly are, then you will feel different
You need to find a diet that works for you, and an exercise regime (that is what makes my blood sugar drop :shock: 8)) that way you will minimise the risk you will need medication. I posted some comments on your other thread too, about how you can make your OCD tendencies work for you! However, are these OCD tendencies simply the Asperger's attention to detail? It is the attention to detail that will help you get control of your diabetes and stay well.