Two months ago a friend offered to drive me to the little town where I hope to move. There is a senior apartment building there and I am on their waiting list for an apartment. This is a very good friend but not one I know well. Seven weeks ago the apartment building manager told me that he would send me a list of the paperwork I need to collect, to bring to him. He said it would take him about 3 weeks to get the list together and send it to me. I decided not to count the week before Christmas and the week after, since people so often slow down on office work at Christmastime. So, minus those two weeks, it has been five weeks. Three days ago I tried to call my friend to see if they can still do the trip, if and when I get the paperwork list from the apartment manager; we had hoped to make the trip during January and I suddenly realized January was coming to an end. I left a voice mail. So far I have received nothing from the apartment manger and my friend has not returned my call. I don't know what to do.