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<blockquote data-quote="jjraak" data-source="post: 1971833" data-attributes="member: 493719"><p>[USER=499435]@merrymunky[/USER] </p><p></p><p>i have replied in your other thread, i think many say it well, but [USER=408573]@Guzzler[/USER] expressed it best.</p><p></p><p>I can offer nothing on that front.</p><p></p><p>But i can say, if your diabetic, i do NOT think, i know ..you can not blame yourself for what happened.</p><p>many say god moves in mysterious ways, and that may be tue.</p><p></p><p>However if your predisposed to a condition, that as i now know, WILL lay fats about your body, </p><p>while giving the semblance that all is well, as it struggles to cope, no matter how well you eat </p><p>(see those who are TOFI..thin on the outside, fat on the inside..</p><p>they are the skinny ones who also have diabetes.)</p><p></p><p>and you, like so many have no clue..what can you do about it, in all honesty.</p><p></p><p>It's natural to wail and gnash your teeth at the world and blame someone, something.anything</p><p>however in your heart of hearts and given time....you will come to see, your eating/weight</p><p>was not the reason and it was never within your powers to help avoid what happened. </p><p></p><p>Blaming yourself is just punishing yourself for something that was NOT your fault.</p><p>The outcome from the hospital will make that clear</p><p></p><p>Many families go through this with any death, and like any loss, the grieving process probably requires we do this to ourselves,</p><p>but in the end it will serve no real purpose, except to help us get to where you need to be.</p><p></p><p>And that place for you, While perhaps not whole again, IS certainly better and ready to take the next step forward for you and your husband and your future.</p><p></p><p>that may seem hard to envisage right now..., however you are not alone.</p><p>the links are out there on the web for those who can better advise you, those who have been where you are and can share the grief, hurt & pain with you.</p><p></p><p>and who can also show you it is possible, that life, no matter how cruel a blow we receive, does eventually carry on,</p><p>and sometimes with a greater purpose.</p><p></p><p>I hope you have or get the chance to meet such groups</p><p></p><p>I like the name you chose and the meaning.</p><p>i hope he's lighting the way for his brother/sister to share in your life</p><p></p><p></p><p>Much love..</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="jjraak, post: 1971833, member: 493719"] [USER=499435]@merrymunky[/USER] i have replied in your other thread, i think many say it well, but [USER=408573]@Guzzler[/USER] expressed it best. I can offer nothing on that front. But i can say, if your diabetic, i do NOT think, i know ..you can not blame yourself for what happened. many say god moves in mysterious ways, and that may be tue. However if your predisposed to a condition, that as i now know, WILL lay fats about your body, while giving the semblance that all is well, as it struggles to cope, no matter how well you eat (see those who are TOFI..thin on the outside, fat on the inside.. they are the skinny ones who also have diabetes.) and you, like so many have no clue..what can you do about it, in all honesty. It's natural to wail and gnash your teeth at the world and blame someone, something.anything however in your heart of hearts and given time....you will come to see, your eating/weight was not the reason and it was never within your powers to help avoid what happened. Blaming yourself is just punishing yourself for something that was NOT your fault. The outcome from the hospital will make that clear Many families go through this with any death, and like any loss, the grieving process probably requires we do this to ourselves, but in the end it will serve no real purpose, except to help us get to where you need to be. And that place for you, While perhaps not whole again, IS certainly better and ready to take the next step forward for you and your husband and your future. that may seem hard to envisage right now..., however you are not alone. the links are out there on the web for those who can better advise you, those who have been where you are and can share the grief, hurt & pain with you. and who can also show you it is possible, that life, no matter how cruel a blow we receive, does eventually carry on, and sometimes with a greater purpose. I hope you have or get the chance to meet such groups I like the name you chose and the meaning. i hope he's lighting the way for his brother/sister to share in your life Much love.. [/QUOTE]
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