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xxladybugxx

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Im so fed up with my self absorbed "friend". She constantly talks about her aliments... and when I did get a word in edgeways about me being diagnosed with T2 she shrugged it off and told me its not bad you survive type rubbish and that its not life threatening and went back to her moaning about all her issues. Maybe its not that bad but she is mean't to be my friend and is mean't to let me vent with her but Grrrrrrrrrr!!!!

She has been like this since January. :(

Really getting fed up.
 
i had a friend like this had been friends since school(now 30 almost 31) and since last year i have not spoken to them. they werent really interested in what was happenin with me unless it involved something to do with there interests or had something to do with them. final straw was when i was goin through something and they didnt even seem interested to the point where they still dont know what happened due to them only being concerned with themselves. as a result i now have a closer friend and i do not miss my old friend at all, i feel like i maybe should miss them but the truth is i dont......... as Netty said with friends like that who needs enimies
 
If you give this person up you will not lose a friend as she has proven she os not one in the first place! I have relatives like this. If you tell them about something bad that has happened you can almost see the wheels turning as they calculate how it will affect them. Life's too short to spend on people who seem only to suck the life force out of you

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xxladybugxx said:
Im so fed up with my self absorbed "friend". She constantly talks about her aliments... and when I did get a word in edgeways about me being diagnosed with T2 she shrugged it off and told me its not bad you survive type rubbish and that its not life threatening and went back to her moaning about all her issues. Maybe its not that bad but she is mean't to be my friend and is mean't to let me vent with her but Grrrrrrrrrr!!!!

She has been like this since January. :(

Really getting fed up.
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Hi Could it of been her New Years resolution to be so self centred??? People now days seem to think ' it's all about them'. I mean some people have a breakdown breaking a nail, or they have bought the wrong shade of lipstick :roll:

I recently had an eye operation and the help and support and the wonderful messages ( and pm's) from members on this forum were absolutely wonderful, it really helped me get through it and I didn't feel so alone. These members cared and understood and some had been through a similar op and another had their operation on the same day as me. Why don't you give your friend a wider berth for now, and if she wont listen and offer support then let her get on with it on her own. If she's a true friend, she'll be back and then maybe you could both have a good heart to heart and it might clear the air .

Good luck

RRB :)
 
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