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Living with a partner with (uncontrolled) Type 2 diabetes...part 2

Molly56

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Don't have diabetes
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I do not have diabetes
Since my first post on this forum (Living with a partner with uncontrolled type 2 diabetes) things have changed a little

On a positive note my partner has decided that he does need to make some changes in his life, not specifically to do with his diabetes but more generally in terms of actually getting up and doing something…..just a small step but definitely a step in the right direction!

That’s spooky…as I am typing this I have just got an email from diabetes.co.uk entitled ‘Small changes, Big Impact’….Time to get motivated……how did it know that was what I was thinking / typing, anyway as I was saying…

From my point of view I have found out more information through the forum which may help me to understand his condition and hopefully provide some useful support.

I have also made a couple of interesting connections between existing symptoms that he has been suffering from over the past few months which may or may not relate to his diabetes, one of which was proximal neuropathy…….. (forum link: Advice wanted on proximal neuropathy please)…this has led me onto other trains of thought in terms of considering links to other underlying conditions which may go some way to explain some of what is going on.

Have been doing some further research into my theories on the net but being careful not to self-diagnose as am fully aware of the dangers of this….but is difficult to ignore when I can see the bigger picture and can see what is happening.

Sometimes it is the people closest that can see best what is going on (rather than health professionals) but we are effectively powerless to do anything about it – unfortunately it is not always possible for outsiders or the person involved to step back and really see what is going on, sorry that sounds a bit philosophical…perhaps I am just in that sort of mood at the moment.

My question is, I guess...

What would happen if someone had an underlying condition which had not been diagnosed but could go some way to explain why perhaps they have developed diabetes ….how do you take this forward as an idea without looking stupid or paranoid?

Am thinking that I am seriously in danger of putting 2 and 2 together and coming up with 5 …..but what if 2 and 2 do actually equal 4?
 
I was diagnosed wrongly for T2 diabetes, or I could have been prediabetic, but for the last few years I knew that there was either something else or There was another underlying reason why I felt rough all the time.
I had to literally tell them that my symptoms were a lot worse than just diabetes, but unless you put a label on your head and your body sends telepathic messages to your GP. You won't know. It took a hypo in a doctors surgery to convince her to send me to a specialist!

And finally tests and more tests and a stay in hospital and more tests!

I now know that if I didn't have that hypo, I would still be feeling really Ill, while the GP would still not know!

You have to keep on at them that things aren't what they seem! Good see another doctor, or you might have to go to A & E.

Keep battling!
 
My question is, I guess...

What would happen if someone had an underlying condition which had not been diagnosed but could go some way to explain why perhaps they have developed diabetes ….how do you take this forward as an idea without looking stupid or paranoid?

Is this underlying condition one of those embarrassing ones that cannot be mentioned?
 
Is this underlying condition one of those embarrassing ones that cannot be mentioned?

No....I first of all googled "proximal neuropathy" and found the link you mentioned, then another link on the same search led me to Cushing's syndrome.....which just happens to have diabetes and high blood pressure as conditions resulting from this....

Basically cortisol regulates blood pressure and insulin so elevated levels of cortisol can lead to high blood pressure / diabetes if I am understanding it correctly

A number of other symptoms of Cushing's syndrome also rang bells so grabbed my attention.

Perhaps I am barking up the wrong tree but then again perhaps not....
 
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