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Living with partern with Diabetes Type 1

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Hello, I am really just looking for advice as I have looked everywhere for advice and there doesnt seem to be anywhere for people that live with someone who has Diabetes.

I just really want to know where i can get any information with regards to how Diabetes affects people, what I can do to help my partner in any way. I want a greater knowledge as I do all the cooking at home and want to make sure that I am cooking the best food for him,

Any advice would be really appreciated.

Thank you
 
Hi. I'm sure many people will post helpful suggestions for you to assist your partner. Although I'm not type 1, I have recently started insulin. There are many areas in common for the management of both T1 and T2. A good diet is an essential for any diabetics and that means sensible portion sizes, low-carbs and low-GI carbs where you can. Fat isn't a problem as long as you don't go mad and unsaturated is always good. Vegetables are fine and so is fruit but try to avoid too much of the very sweet fruits. To avoid weight gain anyone on insulin should try to match the insulin injection amount to the good low-carb diet rather than matching the food to the insulin. Having a good BMI will avoid becoming insulin resistant; true for anyone and obviously avoids other health issues. Your partner will have a meter and hopefully tries to stay within the right sugar level ranges. Daisy should come along shortly and summarise the NICE guidelines for this. Anyone taking insulin has to be careful to avoid sugar lows i.e. going below 4 mmol as they may go 'hypo'. Look on this website for symptoms. This results from taking too much insulin or not eating enough planned food i.e. mis-matching the two. With a sugar level within range by taking the right medication for a T1 the diabetes has no effect on the person, so just ensure your partner takes the prescribed insulin, has regular meals and avoids going hypo. He must follow DVLA guidelines for driving as an insulin user.
 
I've been married to my T1 husband for 42 years. Most of that living with the condition.
I would advise you to lean as much as you can about the condition from this forum and perhaps read" Dr. Bernstein's Diabetes Solution". The conventional NHS/ Diabetes UK advice is not as useful as you'd hope it would be.
Occasionally, you may have to deal with some kind of episode, possibly a hypo. To help you decide what to do in an emergency, it would be useful to know how to use a blood glucose meter. That way you'll know whether the situation will resolve itself or if you need medical help. If that's the case, you don't hesitate to dial999 and tell them you have a diabetic emergency. [you'll be glad to hear I've only had to do that twice in the 42 years.]
At a much more common and less scary level you need to be able to tell if your partner has falling blood sugar and to have a remedy to hand, such as Lucozade, Glucotabs or jelly babies!
If your partner should be ill fromsomething like flu, You may need to remind him to do more blood glucose checks and to take the required amount of insulin.
On a much more everyday level, since you are the cook, learn about controlling the carbs in a recipe and make the food as delicious as possible.
Don't expect to know everything at once. It takes time. Also diabetics with low blood glucose tend to be stroppy and resist efforts to help. You'll need to be understanding. Has he been T1 long? He may be able to tell you much of what you need to know. If he'll alk about it at all.
pm me if you have any specific questions
Hana
 
Hi Nikki and welcome to the forum :)

As Daibell mentioned, here is the information we give new members and I hope you will find it useful. Carry on asking questions and someone will help you.


BASIC INFORMATION FOR NEW MEMBERS

Diabetes is the general term to describe people who have blood that is sweeter than normal. A number of different types of diabetes exist.

A diagnosis of diabetes tends to be a big shock for most of us. It’s far from the end of the world though and on this forum you’ll find well over 30,000 people who are demonstrating this.

On the forum we have found that with the number of new people being diagnosed with diabetes each day, sometimes the NHS is not being able to give all the advice it would perhaps like to deliver - particularly with regards to people with type 2 diabetes.

The role of carbohydrate

Carbohydrates are a factor in diabetes because they ultimately break down into sugar (glucose) within our blood. We then need enough insulin to either convert the blood sugar into energy for our body, or to store the blood sugar as body fat.

If the amount of carbohydrate we take in is more than our body’s own (or injected) insulin can cope with, then our blood sugar will rise.

The bad news

Research indicates that raised blood sugar levels over a period of years can lead to organ damage, commonly referred to as diabetic complications.

The good news

People on the forum here have shown that there is plenty of opportunity to keep blood sugar levels from going too high. It’s a daily task but it’s within our reach and it’s well worth the effort.

Controlling your carbs

The info below is primarily aimed at people with type 2 diabetes, however, it may also be of benefit for other types of diabetes as well.
There are two approaches to controlling your carbs:

  • Reduce your carbohydrate intake
  • Choose ‘better’ carbohydrates
Reduce your carbohydrates

A large number of people on this forum have chosen to reduce the amount of carbohydrates they eat as they have found this to be an effective way of improving (lowering) their blood sugar levels.

The carbohydrates which tend to have the most pronounced effect on blood sugar levels tend to be starchy carbohydrates such as rice, pasta, bread, potatoes and similar root vegetables, flour based products (pastry, cakes, biscuits, battered food etc) and certain fruits.

Choosing better carbohydrates

Another option is to replace ‘white carbohydrates’ (such as white bread, white rice, white flour etc) with whole grain varieties. The idea behind having whole grain varieties is that the carbohydrates get broken down slower than the white varieties –and these are said to have a lower glycaemic index.
http://www.diabetes.co.uk/food/diabetes ... rains.html

The low glycaemic index diet is often favoured by healthcare professionals but some people with diabetes find that low GI does not help their blood sugar enough and may wish to cut out these foods altogether.

Read more on carbohydrates and diabetes

Eating what works for you

Different people respond differently to different types of food. What works for one person may not work so well for another. The best way to see which foods are working for you is to test your blood sugar with a glucose meter.

To be able to see what effect a particular type of food or meal has on your blood sugar is to do a test before the meal and then test after the meal. A test 2 hours after the meal gives a good idea of how your body has reacted to the meal.

The blood sugar ranges recommended by NICE are as follows:

Blood glucose ranges for type 2 diabetes
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 8.5 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (adults)
  • Before meals: 4 to 7 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 9 mmol/l
Blood glucose ranges for type 1 diabetes (children)
  • Before meals: 4 to 8 mmol/l
  • 2 hours after meals: under 10 mmol/l
However, those that are able to, may wish to keep blood sugar levels below the NICE after meal targets.

Access to blood glucose test strips
The NICE guidelines suggest that people newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes should be offered:

  • structured education to every person and/or their carer at and around the time of diagnosis, with annual reinforcement and review
  • self-monitoring of plasma glucose to a person newly diagnosed with type 2 diabetes only as an integral part of his or her self-management education

Therefore both structured education and self-monitoring of blood glucose should be offered to people with type 2 diabetes. Read more on getting access to blood glucose testing supplies.

You may also be interested to read questions to ask at a diabetic clinic

Note: This post has been edited from Sue/Ken's post to include up to date information.
 
Hi

I'm T1 and have been for 18 years, I use a book / iPhone app called 'Carbs and Cals' it tells you what foods contain how many grams of carbs etc. it also gives ideas of ingredients for when you cook. I do all the cooking at home for my wife and I and find the app really useful!

I hope it helps!

Matt


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Hello Nikki

Does your partner inject insulin twice daily or is he using bolus/basal? if you let us know, that will enable people to advise you correctly.
 
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