I'll try to explain about the difference insulins.
Lantus is a basal insulin. Its purpose is to deal with the glucose released by the liver outside of mealtimes. It is supposed to last 24 hours and shouldn't really alter the glucose levels at all. If its adjusted correctly and there are no other variables you should be able to miss a meal and the blood glucose level should remain within 1mmol of where it started. This is perfection and often doesn't happen. (more later)
Novorapid is a rapid insulin. Its purpose is to counter the glucose rise from eating. Its onset is very quick and most of its effect takes place within 2 hours.
Thie graph below shows the way the two insulins work together
BOLUS
The amount of the bolus insulin needed is very individual. It depends upon the persons insulin resistance, meal eaten ie the grams of carbohydrate, and to a lesser extent the protein, the level the blood glucose was before the meal, the amount of exercise either done previously or planned. As your Mum has reduced the amount of carbs she is eating, it is quite probable that she will need less insulin than before, particularly now she is starting from lower levels. By logging BGL results before and after meals ,the amount of insulin needed to 'cover' a set amount of carbs can be eventually calculated. One tip is to try to keep the carbohydrate content of the meals fairly consistent(ie the same amount for each breakfast, similarly lunch and dinner) then you have less to consider and can make small adjustments gradually. ( I'm a little concerned about making rapid changes without proper advice but am concious shes already changed her meal content, so do please try to discuss it with your nurse, I was originally told not to alter my more than 1u at a time but my doses were far lower and had been correctly worked out to start with)
In the meantime, as she is already taking fairly large doses but with newly reduced carb content meals she may go too low and need to treat a hypo. The standard treatment is 15gm fast acting glucose (dextrose tablets, lucozade etc , test again at 15min, if blood glucose levels not raised repeat. If its more than an hour to the next meal then eat a small snack of slower acting carbs or carb + protein.
Basal insulin
As you can see from the graph this is what should be keeping her levels steady between meals and
during the night. If her blood glucose levels fall 3 or more hours after eating then it is probably too much lantus rather than novorapid that is causing it, if the levels rise the dose may be too low.
Your Mum was fearing night time hypos. If she goes to bed with a within target blood glucose level * at least 3 hours after her mealtime (when the action of the novorapid has tailed off) and if her lantus is correctly adjusted then she should be able to sleep without fears. However, to find out what is happening during the night the only way is to test. Normally at 2-3am! and again on rising. Its a hassle, but only needs to be done when for some reason you are making changes or having problems.
*again I can't really give a figure as we're all very different, please ask the nurse. Mine when I was first diagnosed was not below 6.6mmol, if lower, I ate a snack. Now I go to bed with a lower figure but at the moment my BG is very stable overnight.