We haven't been together long, only a year. He doesnt monitor his bloods either, so I talk to him about that. It's been totally swept under the carpet, I dont want to nag and I love him soooo much. I dont want to add more pressure really. I know we have to talk about it, but I just dont know how to without sounding selfish. Just feel like there is a whole playful element missing in our relationship as he is avoiding intimacy. He is very much committed though.