hi I know this thread is a few months old now, I have been having issues with my sons ta also, when he has a hypo at lunch they treat hypo then he eats before insulin (she always calls me to check after being his ta for 2 years this is simple diabetic training procedure) and he needs to go and find her resulting in insulin being missed in the past, she blames him for wasting her lunch hour and ate lunch in front of him while he was waiting for his hypo treatment to work, she mostly has a big attitude problem when she is actually in school and upsets him most days, when she isn't there the school does not have the appropriate cover he requires. he has a statement as he has learning difficulties and t1. I have done nothing but had several basic diabetic training as she keeps getting simple procedures wrong and still not getting it, we have also had meeting with the school in relation to her behaviour, nothing has seemed to work and I don't know what else to do I am literally at the end of my tether does anyone have advice for me? I hope things are now sorted for your son as it seems like you have a fantastic school supporting you, I wish yourself and your son luck for the future kind regards xHello.I had an awful incident happen to my 7 yr old son Matthew on Friday at school and I am still feeling upset and disappointed .
The teaching assistant who is my son's main caregiver at school(and has been since reception) completely forgot to give my son his lunch-time insulin dose and only remembered when my childminder realised at 3.30 when she was picking him up from school.
My childminder was rightly shocked and angry that this could've been forgotten about and the teaching assistant's reaction was to say to my son..'Oh Matthew,you forgot to come and find me!' like it was all his fault!!...and when I asked him about it later he said he did try to find someone and couldn't find either this TA or the other TA who occasionally does the insulin doses.
Then when my childminder suggested that they should test my son's blood sugar to see how it was the TA acted like it was too much trouble but with an 'oh if we must' attitude she went off to get my son's testing meter. His school meter gave a reading of HIGH and when my childminder got home she tested with her meter and his blood sugar was 28.3 !
I've been angry that something so important could be forgotten and even more by the reaction of the TA who I thought genuinely cared for my son as they have always had quite a nice relationship together.
The headteacher and the deputy head happened to be around when all this was happening and have been very good.
I talked to them both this morning,they had a meeting this afternoon about it and the deputy head called me to tell me what steps they had taken to prevent this happening again one of which that this TA will no longer be looking after his insulin doses.
I haven't seen this lady yet but it is just a matter of time and I don't know what I will say to her at the mo. Matthew told me that she got told off for it. she told him this herself .I asked did she apologise to you . Matthew looked a bit surprised and said No. :O(
hi I know this thread is a few months old now, I have been having issues with my sons ta also, when he has a hypo at lunch they treat hypo then he eats before insulin (she always calls me to check after being his ta for 2 years this is simple diabetic training procedure) and he needs to go and find her resulting in insulin being missed in the past, she blames him for wasting her lunch hour and ate lunch in front of him while he was waiting for his hypo treatment to work, she mostly has a big attitude problem when she is actually in school and upsets him most days, when she isn't there the school does not have the appropriate cover he requires. he has a statement as he has learning difficulties and t1. I have done nothing but had several basic diabetic training as she keeps getting simple procedures wrong and still not getting it, we have also had meeting with the school in relation to her behaviour, nothing has seemed to work and I don't know what else to do I am literally at the end of my tether does anyone have advice for me? I hope things are now sorted for your son as it seems like you have a fantastic school supporting you, I wish yourself and your son luck for the future kind regards x
Is it possible to change schools? If not, is there an agency you can contact that can tell the school they must provide someone better for him? In NZ the Ministry of Education can intervene if a school is not providing a safe environment for a child. Every school has to do this by law, but often there are problems like the one you're having. Some parents take their child out of school and home school them, which is often not ideal for parent or child, but at least they are medically safe, and they aren't subject to emotional abuse.hi I know this thread is a few months old now, I have been having issues with my sons ta also, when he has a hypo at lunch they treat hypo then he eats before insulin (she always calls me to check after being his ta for 2 years this is simple diabetic training procedure) and he needs to go and find her resulting in insulin being missed in the past, she blames him for wasting her lunch hour and ate lunch in front of him while he was waiting for his hypo treatment to work, she mostly has a big attitude problem when she is actually in school and upsets him most days, when she isn't there the school does not have the appropriate cover he requires. he has a statement as he has learning difficulties and t1. I have done nothing but had several basic diabetic training as she keeps getting simple procedures wrong and still not getting it, we have also had meeting with the school in relation to her behaviour, nothing has seemed to work and I don't know what else to do I am literally at the end of my tether does anyone have advice for me? I hope things are now sorted for your son as it seems like you have a fantastic school supporting you, I wish yourself and your son luck for the future kind regards x
hi I know this thread is a few months old now, I have been having issues with my sons ta also, when he has a hypo at lunch they treat hypo then he eats before insulin (she always calls me to check after being his ta for 2 years this is simple diabetic training procedure) and he needs to go and find her resulting in insulin being missed in the past, she blames him for wasting her lunch hour and ate lunch in front of him while he was waiting for his hypo treatment to work, she mostly has a big attitude problem when she is actually in school and upsets him most days, when she isn't there the school does not have the appropriate cover he requires. he has a statement as he has learning difficulties and t1. I have done nothing but had several basic diabetic training as she keeps getting simple procedures wrong and still not getting it, we have also had meeting with the school in relation to her behaviour, nothing has seemed to work and I don't know what else to do I am literally at the end of my tether does anyone have advice for me? I hope things are now sorted for your son as it seems like you have a fantastic school supporting you, I wish yourself and your son luck for the future kind regards x
Hi i totally agree yes she should have lunch my point is, it only took 15 minutes of her time for his hypo treatment to work, could she not wait to eat? With the other 45 minutes she had? To tell a child "he's wasting her lunch hour" because he's having a hypo which is not his fault is unfair. I have written in to school several time and had numerous meetings I have now drafted letters to the chair of governors and my mp and local councillor. Many thanks xxIt sounds as if it's the school's management that's at fault. The TA should be able to have her lunch but any child who needs assistance should be able to get what they need.
If no provision is made for the TA to make up her lunch break when your son needs her help, she perhaps can do nothing else but eat lunch in front of him.
If the school won't make proper provision for your son, you should contact the council's education department and let them know of the situation.
Hi unfortunately it would not be a great idea to change school but I'm hoping my next port of call may actually get things sorted (I'm hoping) after all the advice after posting this I'm going higher than the head. Many thanks xxIs it possible to change schools? If not, is there an agency you can contact that can tell the school they must provide someone better for him? In NZ the Ministry of Education can intervene if a school is not providing a safe environment for a child. Every school has to do this by law, but often there are problems like the one you're having. Some parents take their child out of school and home school them, which is often not ideal for parent or child, but at least they are medically safe, and they aren't subject to emotional abuse.
Again this is due to poor management of the school. All staff who are likely to deal with your son should be made aware of his diabetic needs. If this "untrained teacher" new nothing of these needs, she perhaps did this as she was following other instructions e.g. not allowing pupils to go to toilet just after interval.Thank you all for your advice, I have drafted letters to go to chair of the school governor, my mp and our local councillor. I have had various meetings with the head acting head with our diabetic nurse numerous times after writing into the school, after there has been little change if anything things have got progressively worse I have no alternative to take further action. Last Wednesday he was at school his ta was absent, i was called as another ta was with him just to do his blood checks (he has a full time statement) to say he was high, I went in to solve why his sugars (change insulin and give injection if needed)his sugars were high but asked if she was with him all day to keep an eye on him. After finding out she was taking him out of class just to check his bloods and couldn't keep an eye on him I took him home and changed his insulin and gave injection which he needed. I later found out he was with an untrained teacher reading said he needed a drink of water n she refused him which wouldn't have helped his rising sugars either, he ended out in hospital that afternoon with keytones at 2.2. I'm sure you can understand my frustration, many thanks for your advice again kind regards n x
Is it possible to change schools? If not, is there an agency you can contact that can tell the school they must provide someone better for him? In NZ the Ministry of Education can intervene if a school is not providing a safe environment for a child. Every school has to do this by law, but often there are problems like the one you're having. Some parents take their child out of school and home school them, which is often not ideal for parent or child, but at least they are medically safe, and they aren't subject to emotional abuse.
Thank you so much xAgain this is due to poor management of the school. All staff who are likely to deal with your son should be made aware of his diabetic needs. If this "untrained teacher" new nothing of these needs, she perhaps did this as she was following other instructions e.g. not allowing pupils to go to toilet just after interval.
I wish you the best of luck in improving the situation in the school as this will not only help your son but also future pupils.
There's an old saying 'If you want the clearest water go to the head of the fountain' Take it right the very top who is ever in overall charge of education in you area involve the local papers local TV and radio or anything that will embarrass them into some real actionHi unfortunately it would not be a great idea to change school but I'm hoping my next port of call may actually get things sorted (I'm hoping) after all the advice after posting this I'm going higher than the head. Many thanks xx
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