Missing Family members

[Deltic man]

HI everyone I hope you are all ok and as well as can be expected and you are enjoying your life as much as you can. I was going through some of my paper work yesterday I was looking for 2 birth certificates that i had as I wanted to check something out. I then realised that this Saturday something happened to me when I was just 12 years old it will be 56 years on Saturday when I last saw my younger brother he will be aged 62 now he was 6 years old and my youngest sister was aged just 4 years old she will be aged 58 now. I can still remember what happened on the day they went to live with our mum I was left behind and the screaming and the tantrums that I kicked off at because she didn't want me, is it no wonder I was hell bent on self destruction aged just 14. I started self harming myself and this lasted right upto when I was 30 years old is it no wonder I have got mental health problems even aged 68. Sorry about this thread but I just needed to talk with someone and to show you deep down that I am a great guy to talk with and I will help anybody who is struggling with life but bearing in mind that people don't stay around me for long I don't know why happens it just does. So once again I will say sorry for posting this thread

 

[Jaylee]

Hi @Deltic man ,

Your early life experience must have be traumatising.

Have you tried to get in contact with your siblings?

 

[Deltic man]

Hi Jaylee I have tried numerous times to find them but failed but once my life is sorted out and my health and mental issues are gone. Then I am going to get some help in trying to find them as I can't do it on my own. Maybe next year when I feel a lot better than I do now I was nearly scammed out about 4 months ago my neighbour stopped it happening. I received a phone call from this person who said it was my brother so my neighbour put it on video call to check. This guy slipped up I asked him when and where he was born he came back with Leeds 1963 my brother was born on the 1st of August 1960. My neighbour ended the call

 

[Jaylee]

Hi Jaylee I have tried numerous times to find them but failed but once my life is sorted out and my health and mental issues are gone. Then I am going to get some help in trying to find them as I can't do it on my own. Maybe next year when I feel a lot better than I do now I was nearly scammed out about 4 months ago my neighbour stopped it happening. I received a phone call from this person who said it was my brother so my neighbour put it on video call to check. This guy slipped up I asked him when and where he was born he came back with Leeds 1963 my brother was born on the 1st of August 1960. My neighbour ended the call

It a good job your neighbour was on the ball.

I have to admit when I get contacted on social media by old friends I’ve not seen in years, I ask a series of “security questions” that only they (if genuine.) would know.

I just noticed from your profile you use insulin. How long have you been prescribed, & how are you getting on with it?
I find high BGs can evoke a negative impact on mental well-being.

 

[Lainie71]

HI everyone I hope you are all ok and as well as can be expected and you are enjoying your life as much as you can. I was going through some of my paper work yesterday I was looking for 2 birth certificates that i had as I wanted to check something out. I then realised that this Saturday something happened to me when I was just 12 years old it will be 56 years on Saturday when I last saw my younger brother he will be aged 62 now he was 6 years old and my youngest sister was aged just 4 years old she will be aged 58 now. I can still remember what happened on the day they went to live with our mum I was left behind and the screaming and the tantrums that I kicked off at because she didn't want me, is it no wonder I was hell bent on self destruction aged just 14. I started self harming myself and this lasted right upto when I was 30 years old is it no wonder I have got mental health problems even aged 68. Sorry about this thread but I just needed to talk with someone and to show you deep down that I am a great guy to talk with and I will help anybody who is struggling with life but bearing in mind that people don't stay around me for long I don't know why happens it just does. So once again I will say sorry for posting this thread

I can resonate so much with this but without going into to much detail. The difference for me is I know where my family are but have had to detach myself to protect my mental health but it doesn't help that much and has created no amount of problems for me and turfed up things about my life I never knew existed until I looked further. You are not alone and there is no need to say sorry X